Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.
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Personally I'd dump her in an amazingly public fashion where her family was made brutally aware of what shes done. My best mate did this with his ex and its taken her YEARS to get the respect back with her family
Oooooooh do elaborate.
He found out she had slept with another guy whilst we went away for the weekend on a birthday celebration and it all was pre arranged due to her chatting to the guy for about 2 months before hand etc. He was trying to find me a link to a website I was after which he linked me a few months back and MSN saves his chat logs so he started going through them and out and noticed that the biggest file was his gf with this guy which was nearly 10mb (so a lot of conversations) so he started reading through and found the cheating part.
After he found that, he emailed it to her parents and his parents basically saying "what do you think of this? Am I wrong to be upset" and all 4 of them reacted the same. All of them went to his house for him to confront her where she didn't really have a leg to stand on and admitted everything near enough straight away. She went home with her parents who later kicked her out a week later lol.
If a family has any level of moral respect, they take the actions of their child as a reflection upon their own personality. This was a prime example of that
If your a nice guy and wouldn't even dream of cheating and get treated like that, they deserve the humiliation to be honest.
I would say she's already made that choice. A year long relationship is exclusive and if she's being deceitful and hurting you, your self respect and confidence will hit the floor. Protect yourself by just moving on. You don't owe her the opportunity to explain herself. Saying sorry isn't going to make you feel better, the trust has gone, you'll always question if she's thinking of him when she's with you. It will consume you and it just ain't worth it.
Go out, have some fun and meet some new chicks. You'll know in future that you can get hurt so it'll just take longer for someone to get closer to you. If they make the effort, then you'll know they're worth being with.
Seriously
Hardly. It's a last resort that many people often go to when their partner arouses suspicion. It's not exactly ******* someone else, is it?
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Sorry OT but, I always thought this was useless advice. Possibly the worse thing you could do, then a couple of months ago I actually did this to someone who was messing me around. I'd confronted this lass about where we were at and where we were going and she fobbed me off for some other bloke after stringing me along for ages. It turned out one of her housemates had also fancied me for a while but never done anything about it 'cause of me and her mate, so about a week or so later I woke up next to her the morning after, thinking uh ohhhhhhhhhhhh, this is going to be BAD. Next time I saw the original girl she wouldn't even look me in the eye and she was certainly miffed with me.
FELT GOOD MAN.
Very petty, but I won. It also helped me get over all the time i'd wasted going after her 'cause it turned out i'd just been showing off my good qualities to her mate at the same time haha. I'm not pleased that it didn't work out with the original lass but it did make it a whole lot better that I came out of it on top and the fact that this other bloke ditched her after a couple of weeks
Yeah because reading someones facebook messages or MSN/texts is the same as getting laid with someone else...
Daftest thing I've read on here in a while.
lol hardly even comparable mate. What a silly thing to say.
I'm not saying it's right but certain actions led him down that path, which I understand.
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I think he means they're similar in that in either case, there's a serious trust issue. In my opinion, it isn't nearly as clear cut as that.Seriously
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if you havnt dumped her already, do it with a text, just to make it abit more fun
Well out of order I dont understand why women think they can get away with stuff like this.
We have a joint account.
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I don't think it would have made much difference if he did.
It sounded to me as though she had already moved on and was just waiting for the right time to tell him. I think she would have welcomed any way out, so she didn't have to face him with her slutty lies.
Could be wrong though