Destroyed by a girlfriend.. Damn

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So here i am, On GD! Complaining i guess trying to get some cheering up.

Girlfriend of 3 and a half years left me on wednesday. Felt crushed pretty much ever since. What on earth should i be doing with myself? Im 19! Never had this before this is my first serious relationship and now its ended i feel abit.. Stuck and unsure on what i should be doing.

Im working away at the moment so i can't see her which helps a lot as its keeping me busy but am home in 4 weeks and then im sat at home with no work for some time.. What to do?

TL;DR .. Girlfriend has crushed me and left me im pretty down about it all.. What to do?
 
Why did she decide to get up and leave?

Not that this will help you in anyway, I'm just a nosey sod! :p

Just spend your time with friends and family and chill out, life isn't over you're only 19 for christ's sake!
 
Split up with my girlfriend of 6 years a month ago. Quite a long time considering I'm only 21. I just fill my time by spending it with family or friends, working, exercise or fixing my car. Honestly things aren't over, they have just begun for you ;).
 
Erm she left me as she could "No longer do this"

Reality: Shes probably found someone else...

I started the gym again friday been keeping myself busy and keeping my mind off her today but i got a "nice" message off her today with loads of hate in it for some reason so its bought it all back up :/
 
GrimsbyLAD said:
Erm she left me as she could "No longer do this"

Reality: Shes probably found someone else...

I started the gym again friday been keeping myself busy and keeping my mind off her today but i got a "nice" message off her today with loads of hate in it for some reason so its bought it all back up :/
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Well if she's going to take the time to make you feel like **** and insecure about yourself, then I think it's time to fight fire with fire my friend.
 
Okay iv just read the first post of the thread with the cornwall thing and even i laughed :') Pictures are a no if you manage to trawl through my posts you may find one or two iv posted over the last year. I just cannot see were i go from here its the biggest struggle! I don't really think i care to be quite honest in a way :/ I am just worried about were i go next and how do i find another. I been with her so long iv never had to date/flirt etc

I want to fight back with fire Doohicky! But then for some reason im clinging on that theres some hope! But to be honest do i want her back after all this is what else im thinking
 
GrimsbyLAD said:
Erm she left me as she could "No longer do this"

Reality: Shes probably found someone else...

I started the gym again friday been keeping myself busy and keeping my mind off her today but i got a "nice" message off her today with loads of hate in it for some reason so its bought it all back up :/
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reality: she probably hasn't found anyone else but if it helps make you feel better keep telling yourself that. it's a lie though, she's prob thinking the same about you to make it easier, and it'll get you no where.

you just accused her of immediately going to someone else, why shouldn't she hate you?
 
Yeah, I imagine it sucks with it being your first serious relationship. But it gets better with time. cliché ? I know it is.

The fact you say while you're working away its easier, as you're keeping busy. Well there's your solution while you're back home. Keep busy!! Dont just wallow, go out and do stuff with people. Go out and do stuff alone!

The worst time will be bed time, There's no cure there other than falling asleep
 
Fairly sure the answer is no said:
reality: she probably hasn't found anyone else but if it helps make you feel better keep telling yourself that. it's a lie though, she's prob thinking the same about you to make it easier, and it'll get you no where.

you just accused her of immediately going to someone else, why shouldn't she hate you?
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Never accused her of anything. I have been nothing but mature about it asked her reasons and said i only want the best for her if she feels its best then thats what will have to happen and maybe some day she may miss me etc.

I don't see the point disrespecting a woman over something like this and shouting abuse or "getting even" its a waste of time and can get one into some serious trouble
 
Fairly sure the answer is no said:
reality: she probably hasn't found anyone else but if it helps make you feel better keep telling yourself that. it's a lie though, she's prob thinking the same about you to make it easier, and it'll get you no where.

you just accused her of immediately going to someone else, why shouldn't she hate you?
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lol, Funny thing is...This post is a full 180 of what 99% of people on here usually post in breakup threads :D
 
I think living in the Gym is probably my best option as i suffer depression and im well aware of what this can do to me on bad days. The gym used to be my cure for that on my down days as i like the accomplished feeling of working out training up etc.

Now onto dating advice.. How the hell do i talk to women :P I don't drink coffee or tea so lets say im in a pickle i cant take them to do that haha!
 
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