How do I meet women?

86JR · 22 Oct 2013 at 05:01

Nate Silvers said:

You know mr Durianrider only gets away with eating so many carbs in his fruit because he does 100km marathons on his bike, don't you?

He could eat 10 pies before he went out and still not put any weight on.

Durian Rider’s Updated Personal Best times:
5k pb is now 16:58. (track)
10k pb is now 36:07
Half marathon pb is now 1:21:32

When you can RUN those times you could eat anything you wanted and still stay healthy (within reason, for the example).

spoffle · 22 Oct 2013 at 05:48

Mikey1000 said:
If you've never done it or met a genuine one, how can you advise?

spoffle · 22 Oct 2013 at 05:52

Outline said:
Remember, you can't out-exercise a bad diet. Go to a nutritionalist, be strict with yourself long term and exercise because it helps.

Why would you advise people to remember something that isn't true?

Exercise and "bad diet" is contextual as well. Though, depending on what you do and what you want the specifics of a diet isn't that important.

hurfdurf · 22 Oct 2013 at 06:46

spoffle said:
Why would you advise people to remember something that isn't true?

Exercise and "bad diet" is contextual as well. Though, depending on what you do and what you want the specifics of a diet isn't that important.

He wouldn't, what he said is true.

And don't listen to who ever is telling you to get an escort, trust me, they are not going to be the answer.

Efour · 22 Oct 2013 at 07:12

glad to see thread descended into pseudo nutrition sports science clap trap on schedule.

Meanwhile OP still sulks.

Stop being a bitch is the 2nd best advice i can give. Find someone like minded as you OP and get on with life.
no matter how you look or feel you will think you can be better, women more so. Just find one not too mental.

spoffle · 22 Oct 2013 at 07:28

hurfdurf said:
He wouldn't, what he said is true.

It's not, especially when given no context.

Fireskull · 22 Oct 2013 at 09:50

Zefan said:
My only piece of advice - completely ignore every single thing Nate Silvers says.

Can you delete his 'advice' before anyone believes it?

Narj · 22 Oct 2013 at 09:55

Disregard women, acquire currency?

Adam_101 · 22 Oct 2013 at 09:57

Narj said:
Disregard women, acquire currency?

haha! lol

Outline · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:28

Captain Planet said:
Well, you can. If you exercise well enough you could eat a pretty poor diet really. Not that it would be advisable.

Too many incorrect 'facts' ITT, I'm out.

swiftmetal · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:32

Just go out and meet people it can be any where I personally met my now wife on a works night out (work mates sister). She was and still is totally out of my league but I had a blood transfusion that day of B+ and i was confident and the rest is history.

RoboCod · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:48

Outline said:
Too many incorrect 'facts' ITT, I'm out.

I'm afraid to break it to you but I know what I'm talking about, seeing as fitness and nutrition EATS up a large proportion of my life. The problem is, people are all too keen to throw advice when every person is different and requires different direction that caters to their needs. I wouldn't advise an obese person to eat as they wish to lose weight. However, it's quite obvious that many people can eat a rather poor diet and maintain a perfectly formed physique. We were prime examples of this as children. When I was young I ate sweets and chocolate in excess, every day, but I was as skinny as a rake. However, today we have obese kids, because they continue to eat the lard whilst living a largely sedentary life style.

An obese person would require individual consultation with a nutritionist but for the average Joe the message is simple, get off your fat arse and do something.

Yaayuh! · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:50

easyrider · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:53

Captain Planet said:
I'm afraid to break it to you but I know what I'm talking about, seeing as fitness and nutrition EATS up a large proportion of my life. The problem is, people are all too keen to throw advice when every person is different and requires different direction that caters to their needs. I wouldn't advise an obese person to eat as they wish to lose weight. However, it's quite obvious that many people can eat a rather poor diet and maintain a perfectly formed physique. We were prime examples of this as children. When I was young I ate sweets and chocolate in excess, every day, but I was as skinny as a rake. However, today we have obese kids, because they continue to eat the lard whilst living a largely sedentary life style.

An obese person would require individual consultation with a nutritionist but for the average Joe the message is simple, get off your fat arse and do something.

Baked beans and cheese on toast for dinner and chicken salad for lunch protein shake with fruit in morning

weight will drop off

RoboCod · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:54

Efour said:
glad to see thread descended into pseudo nutrition sports science clap trap on schedule.

Meanwhile OP still sulks.

Stop being a bitch is the 2nd best advice i can give. Find someone like minded as you OP and get on with life.
no matter how you look or feel you will think you can be better, women more so. Just find one not too mental.

I think I look awesome, I like my physique, I'm content with how I look. My other half finds me hot, she is attracted to me. I work out, I'm kind of a big deal.

Point being though, OP should not just make do with being a fat lump as he is obviously not happy as such. He should make steps to become content with appearance, not just make do. Upon achieving that, the woman love will follow soon after. COMEATMEBRO, MIRIN?, JELLY? etc.

RoboCod · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:54

easyrider said:
Baked beans and cheese on toast for dinner and chicken salad for lunch protein shake with fruit in morning

weight will drop off

mit exercise of course!

Glanza · 22 Oct 2013 at 11:55

Rossi~ said:

WTF hahahaha

Horse Pop · 22 Oct 2013 at 13:48

twoblacklines said:
From experience, and bear in mind I am a blunt person, the simple truth is that people are shallow.

Unless you are blessed with making people crack up left right and centre from your sense of humor, they will judge you on looks alone. Online you will get judged on looks alone completely: On POF etc they will delete your message without reading it.

Now the way to win at this is to do exercise, and diet properly.

I am sorry if that hurts you, but I am in the same position. What I have learnt though, is that people North of just below Birmingham are a lot more polite and less judgemental than people in the South. Especially Plymouth and Truro... you seem to get physically pushed out of the way if you don't look like a model, let alone ignored.

The great thing about the solution is it actually makes you healthier and benefits every part of your life. The other great thing about going from fat - fit, is that you know who the shallow people around you are, so when they hit on you, it is easier to ignore them.

Seen a couple of forums wind up doing experiments along the lines of posting the same profile on a dating site once with a hot photo and once with a not hot photo.

Then they tried the hot photo with a good profile and a bad profile (like they wrote anything).

Apparently you can write any old nonsense and claim your favourite hobby is clogging puppies to death as long as you have hot photos.

wingman · 22 Oct 2013 at 13:54

Horse Pop said:
Apparently you can write any old nonsense and claim your favourite hobby is clogging puppies to death as long as you have hot photos.

It's bewbs or GTFO.

Glanza · 22 Oct 2013 at 14:12

Horse Pop said:
Seen a couple of forums wind up doing experiments along the lines of posting the same profile on a dating site once with a hot photo and once with a not hot photo.

Then they tried the hot photo with a good profile and a bad profile (like they wrote anything).

Apparently you can write any old nonsense and claim your favourite hobby is clogging puppies to death as long as you have hot photos.

Doesn't surprise me after all most sites like POF are just cattle markets anyway