A few fair points & I agree, underline issues may be present.
My problem is with the attitude that it's somehow intrinsically wrong for a women to be sexually adventurous (equal to that of the average male) - the points you raise are perfectly valid concerns (as they are not drenched in clear misogyny).
Steedie said:Tbh, if I was able to sleep with 3 different women a week, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Would I do it for £500 and a bit of infamy? No thanks Jeff

Would smash with the force of 1000 Greek gods, just because I bet she's absolute filth
Indeed,It doesn't bother me that women enjoy sex or are sexually adventurous - I'd be a hypocrite otherwise.
However, demeaning yourself online (well I'm reflecting on if it was me) and publicising yourself on a website for a quick lay just seems a bit of a shame.
Both men and women have always been relatively promiscuous, there have always been the men that brag about it and the women that keep it to themselves. I don't care that the trend is changing, as it should be.
If this had been a man, I'd hold the same attitudes - perhaps it's because I'm older and been there and done that, looking I realise that there's nothing cool about boasting about such things, and being humble and modest is a far more acceptable trait to me.
As Steedie says:
It's the latter part and the almost "selling" herself I disagree with. We've all pulled uglier I'm sure.![]()
Would smash with the force of 1000 Greek gods, just because I bet she's absolute filth
You'd love to think so, wouldn't you. Unfortunately you can hardly ever predict what a woman is going to be like in bed. Not from how to looks, dresses or acts. She may well be totally inert in bed.
Indeed,
Unfortunately many seem to think that it's perfectly fine for men to be promiscuous but it's filthy & wrong for women to behave in the exact same way.
You'd love to think so, wouldn't you. Unfortunately you can hardly ever predict what a woman is going to be like in bed. Not from how she looks, dresses or acts. She may well be totally inert in bed.
Indeed, there been loads of stories of celebrity women who'd you think would be amazing in bed but in reality just lay there and are lazy. Anna Kournikova springs to mind
I reported him for linking me with rape somehow, not on
You'd love to think so, wouldn't you. Unfortunately you can hardly ever predict what a woman is going to be like in bed. Not from how she looks, dresses or acts. She may well be totally inert in bed.
There has been an elitism about "macho men", and although it's changing, that attitude hasn't changed. I'm guilty of it sometimes too if I'm honest. Unfortunately it's inherent in nature that the male spreads the seed and that the female is there to breed. We're still evolving from those animal instincts I guess - and some of those are still ingrained in modern society.
As far as I'm concerned as long as people are safe, they can do what they want.
People who show off, or overtly sexualise everything they do and how they behave, it's not really something I find "appealing". If a woman is inert in public, it does not mean she hasn't got a healthy sexual appetite, likewise the girls that flaunt themselves for whatever reasons, aren't necessarily that interesting either,. No different to guys that wade around thinking they're gods and after to pumps and a squeeze they're done.
Funnily enough, I can't remember ever actually dating a girl who wasn't actively discouraged by that kind of macho behaviour. Maybe I just have a thing for the meek and pure, but I'd never brag to a woman I liked about sexual exploits in just the same way as I don't brag to male friends about them.
A girl who is either interested in my sexual exploits or is interested in telling me about hers is an instant red flag for me. Maybe that's me being wired wrongly, but it just seems so inconsequential.

I thought female empowerment was simply being able to act how they want (assuming nobody is being harmed) without facing negative social judgements (in this case based off ancient religious & outdated views of female purity & sexual conservatism).
In all fairness if the tables were turned and it was male bedding three females per week, I bet the comments would be a lot different