The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Decided to pull her up on it.
"Yes my profile is still on pof, sorry I haven't deleted yet, I went on to check my messages"

At least she didn't worm her way out making excuses..
So the question I haven't asked when I should have is why she felt the need to
A, be still active on the site
B, feel the need to "check messages"

She then had the gall to ask me if I'd like her to delete her profile.
Derr I shouldn't have to ask!!!!!! ( I don't think she gets it)
I tell her it's entirely her decision which it should have been... like three or four months ago)

Since then texts from her have almost dried up and ones that I have got, have not got any feelings attached to them, if you know what I mean (they are just statements of fact) no xx's, no smileys, no effort what-so-ever to make amends or show willing to make things work, or invite me round to make up, say sorry or anything really ..
Tonight she's gone out as "she has friends"...
Was that a dig?
Thanks love..

Time to say Go **** yourself I think...

NEXT!
 
Fuzz said:
Decided to pull her up on it.
"Yes my profile is still on pof, sorry I haven't deleted yet, I went on to check my messages"

At least she didn't worm her way out making excuses..
So the question I haven't asked when I should have is why she felt the need to
A, be still active on the site
B, feel the need to "check messages"

She then had the gall to ask me if I'd like her to delete her profile.
Derr I shouldn't have to ask!!!!!! ( I don't think she gets it)
I tell her it's entirely her decision which it should have been... like three or four months ago)

Since then texts from her have almost dried up and ones that I have got, have not got any feelings attached to them, if you know what I mean (they are just statements of fact) no xx's, no smileys, no effort what-so-ever to make amends or show willing to make things work, or invite me round to make up, say sorry or anything really ..
Tonight she's gone out as "she has friends"...
Was that a dig?
Thanks love..

Time to say Go **** yourself I think...

NEXT!
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Fuzz said:
And my Lithuanian one too. :D

European women rock! :D
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Fuzz said:
Decided to pull her up on it.
"Yes my profile is still on pof, sorry I haven't deleted yet, I went on to check my messages"

At least she didn't worm her way out making excuses..
So the question I haven't asked when I should have is why she felt the need to
A, be still active on the site
B, feel the need to "check messages"

She then had the gall to ask me if I'd like her to delete her profile.
Derr I shouldn't have to ask!!!!!! ( I don't think she gets it)
I tell her it's entirely her decision which it should have been... like three or four months ago)

Since then texts from her have almost dried up and ones that I have got, have not got any feelings attached to them, if you know what I mean (they are just statements of fact) no xx's, no smileys, no effort what-so-ever to make amends or show willing to make things work, or invite me round to make up, say sorry or anything really ..
Tonight she's gone out as "she has friends"...
Was that a dig?
Thanks love..

Time to say Go **** yourself I think...

NEXT!
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Maybe she logged on to see if you were still there or wanted to look at messages that you sent her, she's probably a bit off because she's been questioned but if she was up to something she would probably swing the other way and overcompensate and be overly affectionate to throw you off. Just tell her that you're uncomfortable with the idea of her still being on there and checking messages, if she has a problem with that then bin her, but give her a chance.
 
If she's checking up on me, after I specifically said I'd deleted my profile months ago, yet have given her no cause to think I might be up to something. I think she would have a few trust issues. I always reply to messages, have location turned on so she could see where I post from.

All messages are deleted after 30 days, so we are roughly 120 days too late for that.
 
Nah, she's gone cold because you caught her out and she's unrepentant. She's still going on dates, or likes the idea of still going on dates and having men chase her online, and doesn't really care that you don't like it. Your feelings about it obviously aren't that important to her, and you don't mean that much to her that she would close it all down and concentrate on you.
 
Spanish archer time, El bow. Sounds like she wants to keep you on the hook while looking for an upgrade via pof.
 
Steampunk said:
Nah, she's gone cold because you caught her out and she's unrepentant. She's still going on dates, or likes the idea of still going on dates and having men chase her online, and doesn't really care that you don't like it. Your feelings about it obviously aren't that important to her, and you don't mean that much to her that she would close it all down and concentrate on you.
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Is this honestly or to build his confidence up :D


Ask her outright if there is still something between you both or are you wasting your time and her's

Then move on
 
RedvGreen said:
So, how many of you folk have done stuff with a married woman?
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Once when young. She was quite older, and super filthy. Her husband found after we stopped seeing one another (she broke up with him during the month we hooked up as she wasn't happy with him anyway). She named me in reasons for divorce! Scared the hell out of me. Bumped into him in a bar one night a while later, bricked myself of course, went up to him and out right said "look, I understand you might want to punch me, but can we do it outside and not in the bar". He then took my hand and shook it thanking me for saving him from "that witch". I couldn't believe that and kinda wish he'd have punched me instead.

Would never pull that crap again but hell yes we had some nasty fun and she was smoking hot.
 
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