I was really enjoying this game, got to lvl 40 gear lvl was 290 or so from playing strikes, but I can't progress any further my gear lvl is as good as it's gonna get as I can't do raids without a clan, only one of the ppl on my friends play destiny, why didn't they make it so you can just do a matchmaking system for raids to get higher lvl gear. Such a shame.
this has already been discussed to death.
basically the harder content doesn't have matchmaking because of retards that play the game.
i've done raids where you can do it start to finish in 20-50 minutes (depending on the raid) or you can spend 4 hours and not get anywhere near completing it because of how bad people some people are.
managed to 3 man crota yesterday start to finish in what seemed like 20 minutes. didn't wipe at any part even with 3 people. it was to help someone get a trophy
imagine matchmaking where you would get paired up with little squeakers with no experience, don't listen to a word you say and blame the game or lag rather than themselves for constantly wiping. it would be a nightmare. people would slate the game for it. that nightfall with the defend the warsat right at the start. try doing that with a burn on and 2 squeakers and you will soon realise why nightfalls don't have matchmaking.
you need to check out sites like lfg, the100, reddit destiny fireteams, but beware there are plenty special needs on there. the other day i saw a post looking for highly skilled pvp players for iron banner. specific light level, etc. well the person that made that post came bottom of the 3-4 games i played with that group yet was constantly talking like a badass over the mic when they got 1 kill and then blaming lag, swearing, using racist profanity when they died before i checked their stats and yup negative k/d. i promptly left and found another group.
you have the same problem with raids. i've joined squeakers where they say they have done it. i check their loadouts and none of them had levelled weapons. none of them had icebreaker. none of them had any weapons capable of killing oracles. basically lying through their teeth. i have stuck with groups like this in the past to try and help them but if they don't have the weapons needed their is no point it's actually impossible if only 1-2 of you know what your doing and have the right weapons for the specific parts at least 3-4 of you need to know what your doing but it's preferable to have 5-6.
you should be able to do normal mode, but to make it easier on yourself i suggest you get a touch of malice if you don't already have one and a black spindle or a high impact sniper like 1000 yard stare.
also suggest you watch some videos so you aren't a burden on the rest of the raid group. also if you feel like the group isn't working out and you have wiped more than 3 times on any of the first 2 stages (opening the portal and totems) just leave and join a different group.