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Cheating
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YEAH THE FISH!!!
ILLUMINATE HER! She has hurt a fellow BATTLE BROTHER!!
ILLUMINATE HER! She has hurt a fellow BATTLE BROTHER!!
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Best advice in here too.
Soldato
Man of Honour
I've only scrolled through the first dozen or so posts but this is so true.
Speaking from personal experience, time heals and things get easier but it's never the same. It's like having an old battle scar. You know it's there but you learn to live with it.
With that said, too many couples jump at the first hurdle without giving their all to put things right.
Soldato
Man of Honour
Your mind probably shied away from the festering mess that she made of English, like you'd look away from someone who'd just taken a dump on a good painting and smeared the faeces around with their own face.
There are several possible translations into English, though;
1) She's been "seeing" this person (everyone is assuming the person is a man, but that's not necessarily true) for the last 7 years.
2) She was "seeing" them 7 years ago and is "seeing" them again now, but not in between.
3) She's talking about the present and future, not the past and present. It's a plausible interpretation, given that the previous bits of garbled mess are about their secret relationship going round in circles with no way forward. If that's her perception (as she says it is), then she would think they would be in the same position in 7 years time. Why 7 years and not next year or any other amount of time in the future? Maybe she has a reason, maybe not. If this is what she meant, the point would be a reference to some time in the future. How much time wouldn't really matter. Maybe '7' just flittered into her head at the time.
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6/4 ODDS OP doesn't post again.
Don
whatever's going on, trust is gone, it's over
talk about what arrangement makes all three of you happy, and go with it
Best answer.
Unfortunately you have shown you don't trust her, so it doesn't matter if she's innocent or not, the relationship won't work out.
Soldato
Any updates Rishy? Don't think he's posted since the OP, but hope this can end amicably especially with the child in the equation.
Sounds like we not getting the full story tbh.
Why would anyone in a relationship spy on the partner? After all you do not own yer partner and have no right to do this.
Why would she have both sets of keys?
Relationships are based on trust without that it is as good as over.
It sounds like she wants the relationship to be over and I cant blame her 1 of the number 1 turn off for women is possessiveness and jealousy.
Why would anyone in a relationship spy on the partner? After all you do not own yer partner and have no right to do this.
Why would she have both sets of keys?
Relationships are based on trust without that it is as good as over.
It sounds like she wants the relationship to be over and I cant blame her 1 of the number 1 turn off for women is possessiveness and jealousy.
Soldato
Same for a bloke
Soldato
OP, please remember that ~70% posters in the forum are (foreveralone.jpg) trolls.
You suspected she was cheating, you investigated, and it was confirmed. The only thing you need to know is that your suspicions were confirmed, and it is better to know 100%. Move on.
You suspected she was cheating, you investigated, and it was confirmed. The only thing you need to know is that your suspicions were confirmed, and it is better to know 100%. Move on.
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Most women like possessive and jealous men, but only when it's convenient.
I was shown a thread on mumsnet relating to this which seemed to ring very true.
The gist was that the drip, drip effect of things seeming strange or not adding up turn the suspicious partner totally paranoid and almost questioning their own sanity. Ultimately you should trust your gut if things don't seem right, they aren't.
Who knows what has went on prior to this to make the OP take the steps he has.