The opposite to be honest. DICE servers are horrible **** infested **** holes. People know they can act and do whatever they want with absolutely no consequences. Not unusual for me to turn chat off.
Previous BF's you find a good clan run server (MG guys ran an excellent BF4 server), don't act like a spoiled brat and enjoy moron free games. Lack of rented admin servers killed off what was left of much of the community.
Yeah it is definitely a subjective/personal thing.
This is partly why I'm loving battlefront atm, just like being able to hit the game mode I want, it looks for a server and finds me one in seconds (also does a decent job of getting one where the round has not long started) and that's it, no need to look through server list and see what has the right settings that I want or/and finding one that isn't near the end etc.
As for chat, I enjoy reading the salt in BF games but for battlefront I hide everything that I can and just enjoy the star wars immersive experience!
I'm sure that dice/ea could find a right balance if they really wanted to for server stuff though.