He did, he's saying only the EX-GT comes with all the toys, other trims may look nicer or be faster but will have less spec.
Exactly that. They type-s GT comes close, but does not have as many toys as the EX-GT. From a quick scan on auto trader you miss out on the built in sat nav, they have the lesser stereo (keep in mind changing the stereo on this generation civic is awkward and expensive, in my mind that alone is reason enough to go for the enchanced one), no full leather (meaning no heated seats), it looks like most do not have HID headlights which are standard on the EX-GT, and it also looks like they don't have rear parking sensors unless they were specced as an option, again these are standard on the EX-GT.
There might be other bits I'm missing, but as you can see from that list alone it's quite a lot of equipment you miss. Unfortunately Honda don't do anything in this price range that offers the looks of the Type S / Type R and equipment of the EX-GT essentially meaning you have to choose, equipment, or looks.
These two adverts give you a good look at the difference between the models.
http://www.autotrader.co.uk/classified/advert/201706246737314
http://www.autotrader.co.uk/classified/advert/201707117263010
It's worth mentioning my partner owns an EX-GT (which I bought for her and have done a good bit of driving in myself) and I wouldn't consider the Type S, I'd even go as far as saying it's a nicer place to be than my own Octavia VRS! Whilst I agree the Type S is better looking once you sit inside the EX-GT is in every way the better option. If you are going to go for the looks and accept the lesser equipment you might as well have the type R as you at least then get the performance to offset the lesser equipment. However, I still dont think the Type R for is for you given your origional list of requirements.