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Yes I asked as we had a few beers! Probably harder than asking my wife when I got to the point......no it wasn’t it took 4 attempts on holiday! Not good at public things!
Old strange tradition, something I would consider disrespectful to your spouse-to-be more than anything else.
Yesthe thought of it makes my skin crawl
an awkward and embarrassing tradition in this day and age if you ask me
why would you feel disrespected as a father out of interest ? just because of the tradition
Easier and cheaper just knocking him out to assert dominance.
I told, I didn't ask.
i think if i have to do it it would be this
pop round and say i'm going to ask X to marry me, just letting you know
Old strange tradition, something I would consider disrespectful to your spouse-to-be more than anything else.
Yeah, that's my take. The only person who is part of the decision is the potential fiancee. I think it's disrespectful to put anyone else in the equation.
getting engaged , did you tell them you were going to ask your daughter to marry beforehand?
surely not needed these days...
Go for (prospective) mother in law? Two birds with one stone, so to speak.What are you going to do if he says no?