Soldato
Most likely above but I bet they ignore it because they hope it’s something else
So why would a girl not want to label a relationship even though practically we are in a relationship?
She says she dont want to put labels on things?
S01E1
Found out in January my wife of 10 years was cheating on me - gotta love connected tech. I offered to forgive and forget, but she needed space for a bit i.e. she wants to continue doing what she's been doing and is now in a new relationship .
We have a child and sharing parenting with a veiw to keeping things ammicable.
S01E2
Now she mentions money... seems she wants to recover money spent during the marriage. Ho hum and here we go.
I work full time and earn more, and she works part time in a skilled professional role (lifestyle choice after 1 yr maternity leave) so life is now financially more difficult for her... and her financial position is now my fault as she has to pay rent and buy new stuff.
TBC
So why would a girl not want to label a relationship even though practically we are in a relationship?
She says she dont want to put labels on things?
So episode 3...
I find out today that she has gone to Spain for a 5 night break, assume with her new bloke. She has never mentioned this - why do I care? Well she is pleading poverty, but also she is still a parent and would be my first port of call in an emergency affecting our daughter. We start mediation in a few weeks and no doubt will claim she didn't pay for any of the holiday and is still broke.
When I confronted her about this she said it was a last minute surprise and only knew on the day of departure and in event of emergency she can still be contacted. Given her job, last minute leave is an impossibility - so told her I don't believe the last minute thing in the slightest and it explains her sudden flurry of exercise activity, her behavior is very predictable. My daughter even said this morning that mummy now has pretty nails - again classic holiday prep!
I couldn't care less that she's gone and gone with her new bloke just the circumstances around it - Am I right to be annoyed and/or concerned about her behaviour and continued lies?
CUT.
I don't want to go in to too much detail as I still care for my ex and it seems wrong writing about it on the internet. My ex has on-going mental health issues that really took its toll on me. Her mental health became apparent quickly in to our relationship and there were ups and downs. Since trying for a baby (for over a year) this became noticeably worse. I remember on many occasions not wanting to come home from work. I remember pulling on the drive and saw the dishes hadn't been done which was an instant indication she was in a bad place. I felt trapped. I did love my ex but it was love more suited for a family member. If I'm totally honest I didn't find her attractive anymore. On top of this we were trying to run a business as well as work full time jobs.
I always felt like I couldn't leave my ex. I was incredibly scared she wouldn't be able to pull herself out of her depression. When I met this person at work, I felt like I could and that I should.
One option is to get a cheap one to propose with, then go shopping together for the real one - that way she gets the right size and design she wants. Worked well with my wife - she saw the shopping together for it as romantic (I saw it as a practical solution to the issue of me getting the wrong size!) .
Another ring not an option ?I thought of that, but I think i want the initial WOW factor and places such as 77Diamonds offer free adjustments anyway. Just want to get the closest to start really.
Get something with a stone that's more interesting than a diamond.
Does she have any other rings you could borrow while she's not looking and stick on a size chart?Still doesn’t solve the the issue with ring size.
Those who have bought rings for their significant others, what size were they?
Does she have any other rings you could borrow while she's not looking and stick on a size chart?
Still doesn’t solve the the issue with ring size.
Those who have bought rings for their significant others, what size were they?