"I'd love to help you but I'm sorry, I can't because [insert reason here]" would work better.
That to me sounds rude
Well yes, given that is exactly what it means
Oh bugger.
Well.... Hmm. It seems I have been rude to many many many people over the years.
Without even realising it too, in my mind I'm saying "I can't help you at the moment, even though I really do want to".
It seems I need to train myself out of saying the rude version. No wonder some people sound odd on the phone when the conversation ends... I just assumed people were annoyed I didn't have a supplier for their part requirement. Or due to my lack of time or stock.
Turns out I'm just a rude sod xD
I can't help you, even if I was able to, is the courteous response no ?
I can't help you, even though I want to
That's fine and I think is what you thought you were saying to people.
"Sorry, I don't have stock, so I can't help you even if I wanted to".
Sorry, I don't have stock
I'd interpret that as contradicting itself and thus being at best meaningless. "can" and "able to" mean the same thing, so it's impossible for "able to help you" and "can't help you" to both be true.
If I remember a past thread correctly, involving Diagro managing to give the impression to a customer that he was grooming the guy's daughter over some phone repair 'come to my house for a special price love' misunderstanding, you might be rightI'm not sure a customer facing role is for you.
As I said previously, due to rules like health & safety or some other, you might be able to help, but you can't help, forbidden would be the correct wordage but who says "I'm forbidden from helping you" ? So yes you can be "able" to help somebody but in reality you cannot
Sorry I can't help, we're out of stock.
Not quite.If I remember a past thread correctly, involving Diagro managing to give the impression to a customer that he was grooming the guy's daughter over some phone repair 'come to my house for a special price love' misunderstanding, you might be right
Nb. I might not have that memory entirely square