Soldato
Thought I would post my situation in here:
I've been dating a girl for a couple of months and we've been getting on really well, talking about a future together etc.
I just had a video call with her and she had a red scab on her lip. I asked her about it and she said it was something that happened when she was stressed. No specifics. The only thing I can think it would be is herpes.
It's really concerning because if it is I may have caught it off her, but at the very least if I keep seeing her I will end up getting it myself. There is also the trust issue of not telling me in the event it is a contagious disease. My plan is to ask her if her condition has a name. I don't know if I am overreacting but it would be heart breaking to call everything off if it does end up being herpes.
this isn't going to last long if an STI is the first thing you thought it would be