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StriderX seems a bit defensive over this relationship doesn't he.
Nah you're well wide of the mark.It'll be the difference between having someone and having no one, becoming abusive and suicidal.
Though i'm sure many of the alpha men in this thread think that if you can't get someone to live with, then you're a failure and should probably take the rope. The same people who likely wonder why no one cares about men's issues. smh
Some people like that/get off on it. But that's nothing to do with alpha/beta status. This chap is either living in complete denial, or enjoying the humiliation it brings.
I'm not an "incel". That word has a lot of connotations of women-hate and all that jazz. None of which applies to me.Fair enough re: the rest of your post but I would quibble here and say that the behaviour of the author is very much "beta", that doesn't necessarily imply that all "beta males" are necessarily going to be into this but just that, along with being an incel, being cuckolded is generally considered to be a very beta thing.
This is precisely it for me. If he had the option and declined, no problem. The fact that option is taken away from him despite it being requested by his partner is not a fair and equal relationship."She would not want me to have the same" is the key part IMO, particularly since what they're referring to is "two people having a good time."
Polygamous relationships, sure. Relationships in which one/some of the people are monogamous and one/some are polygamous, sure. A relationship in which one person is allowed to have a good time with other people and the other person is not because their partner wouldn't like it, no. It's not a decision he's made for himself. It's a decision she's made at him. That's what makes it wrong IMO.
Well you can't get an STD from being friends with someone, so the "possessive nature" or relationships does have some practical benefits.This is precisely it for me. If he had the option and declined, no problem. The fact that option is taken away from him despite it being requested by his partner is not a fair and equal relationship.
Sort of on topic, but logically speaking I've always felt that the possessive nature of our sexual relationships is an interesting demonstration of just how powerfully our cultures shape our feelings. In theory, I shouldn't have an issue with my wife having a purely physical relationship with someone else, any more than I should have issue with her being friends with someone. It shouldn't impact our relationship. And yet, I would be devastated if she did, or at best would find it extremely uncomfortable even if I could accept it logically. Same goes if it were me in the other shoes. The only reason I can imagine I'd feel that way is because I've spent my life being told that I should. Any other perspectives on that?
Well you can't get an STD from being friends with someone, so the "possessive nature" or relationships does have some practical benefits.
Any other perspectives on that?
Yes.This is precisely it for me. If he had the option and declined, no problem. The fact that option is taken away from him despite it being requested by his partner is not a fair and equal relationship.
Sort of on topic, but logically speaking I've always felt that the possessive nature of our sexual relationships is an interesting demonstration of just how powerfully our cultures shape our feelings. In theory, I shouldn't have an issue with my wife having a purely physical relationship with someone else, any more than I should have issue with her being friends with someone. It shouldn't impact our relationship. And yet, I would be devastated if she did, or at best would find it extremely uncomfortable even if I could accept it logically. Same goes if it were me in the other shoes. The only reason I can imagine I'd feel that way is because I've spent my life being told that I should. Any other perspectives on that?
That article is almost certainly about one of our favourite 'feminist' posters on here. You know who you are buddy!
Did your wife's boyfriend tell you to say that?
Funny enough, after being with my wife for 10 years, one night she asked if I knew that, before we started dating, she was FWB with a mutual friend of ours who now is married in another country. Absurdly, despite this happening 11 years ago, completely legitimately, I felt like I'd been cheated on because I had just found out about it.It’s pretty normal, the possessiveness for some doesn’t just fall within the relationship period either. Whether they would admit to it or not most men aren’t comfortable with the thought that another dude has had his member in their partner before them.
And a Trump hater?
I'm not an "incel". That word has a lot of connotations of women-hate and all that jazz. None of which applies to me.
I'm a bloke who isn't that fussed about being in a relationship, and whilst occasionally I might think, "What's wrong with you, man," I mostly just find other things to do, and save myself the stress of it all.
Most blokes find women enjoyable to be around, but for me the stress it generates is insurmountable. That doesn't make me hate women, I just can't act normally around them, is all.
Some people would question if I can act normally at any time, but those people are dirty left-wing types whose opinions are even less wanted than my own
Imagine being the other guy in that relationship, you just come round and plow the girl while her boyfriend is in the other room then leave, I bet he has a right laugh about it
I can neither confirm nor deny that!