Caporegime
I meant comparing beard styling to periods and/or the menopause...
Clearly missing the point. Both facial hair and periods are largely inevitable. How you deal with each is the variable. There are free/low cost methods for both.
I meant comparing beard styling to periods and/or the menopause...
Presumably you have been in a relationship with multiple women and know that some women feel really quite sick and uncomfortable on and around their period? The menopause is presumably like that x20.
I mean, if people feel physically sick and it affects their work, why shouldn’t work address and acknowledge that, to some degree? I imagine it is quite a taboo and very emotional for most women as it signifies the end of their ability to bear children. Men don’t have to worry about the emotional turmoil of losing that ability.
So much emphasis on ‘the hypocrisy of equality’. Really it should all be about fairness. It is fair that if people are ill then their employers should acknowledge this and provide support.
I suppose I fell into that for emphasising emotion.Should men get time off for the flop? That's upsetting and life changing.
I suppose I fell into that for emphasising emotion.
It depends. If it doesn’t have physical symptoms that affects work and being comfortable, then it should only really be of concern to an employer in respect of stress and mental health. Perhaps erectile dysfunction will cause someone considerable stress? Although there is a pill for that. Plus, I’ve not been required to whip out a rock hard marrow-like semi, at work, for quite some time - unlikely to interfere with most jobs, I’d suggest, quite unlike symptoms of feeling physically sick that you get with things like the menopause.
Perhaps I misunderstood, is that Scotland alone? I thought a similar plan was implemented in England too? Or was that just hot air from HMG again?They aren’t free to schools. Some schools will provide them to students for free, some teachers will out of their own pockets, some charities provide them.
I understand your point, I just don't consider dealing with facial styling and a woman dealing with a period is comparable.Clearly missing the point. Both facial hair and periods are largely inevitable. How you deal with each is the variable. There are free/low cost methods for both.
I understand your point, I just don't consider dealing with facial styling and a woman dealing with a period is comparable.
The suggested policy is just offering women flexible hours during this time period, isn’t it? Flexible hours isn’t an extension of sick pay, so I don’t really see the problem. I imagine many people wouldn’t take up the offer. It’s just there for those that are suffering.I'd feel pretty physically sick if I couldn't get it up!
There are also pills to aid with menopause. Its also worth noting that, as I stated earlier, not all women get the ill effects described.
We already have a system in place to deal with people not feeling well enough to work - sick pay. Why change what aint broke?
The suggested policy is just offering women flexible hours during this time period, isn’t it? Flexible hours isn’t an extension of sick pay, so I don’t really see the problem. I imagine many people wouldn’t take up the offer. It’s just there for those that are suffering.
Oh, speaking of flexible hours, I got an out of office this week that said the person worked 3 afternoons a week. I did find that a bit lol. Meanwhile, in my team, those people on 4 day weeks are, in reality, on 7 day weeks \o/
Yeah, my workplace sucks.
Perhaps if you canvas some women's opinions on why it may be different, they will be able to explain in detail why they are not comparable.Why not? Both are near inevitable, have hygiene and sociological impacts. Perfectly compatible.
Yup and I also think for professional roles then really it’s a case of being in the office or available during core hours (say 10-4) and beyond that if you do the work then meh. Just allows people to do school runs, get the boiler man in, all that crap that a strict 9-5 gets in the way of.I agree it's not necessarily a problem but that the option should not just be confined to a specific demographic. If you are to offer a benefit it should be to all. For example, it's been shown that younger workers benefit from later starts, parents may benefit too.
Free? Not sure where I indicated that
I believe they should be free, not just to schools.
Just because you misunderstand doesn't mean something is 'guff'
Perhaps if you canvas some women's opinions on why it may be different, they will be able to explain in detail why they are not comparable.
Everyone is already entitled to flexable work hours. The company has to give a good reason NOT to grant it. They changed that ages ago.
I apologise, i'm not entirely sure what you're failing to understand.By guff I'm referring to you quoting people with comments like "grasping much?" etc.. There isn't much to understand there - I already understood that you appeared to think they were free, you questioned that assumption then confirmed it was the case.
You have however completely ignored the responses to that position and the question of why?
Perhaps they would be able to explain the experience.Perhaps they would be biased?
Very simple way to deny it. Client demand.
Perhaps they would be able to explain the experience.
I apologise, i'm not entirely sure what you're failing to understand.
If you wish to ask a specific question please do, I shall attempt to respond in an easily comprehensible manner.
Why not explain your position - you seem to indicate that tampons should be free, it is slight diversion from the thread topic of menopausal women but apparently you think this is a particular hardship for women. My question is why should they be free? Are you ignorant of the fact they're not the only solution?
Likewise - If tampons should be free should disposable nappies be free? Razor blades? Man sized tissues? etc.. etc..
Shaving facial hair is a choice?
Joking? Of course it is...
Why do people on this forum hate women so much?