Which is what I've tried to do but 2 months on and I still think about her a lot. I'm not interested in getting back with her, we didn't work; I just dont understand her motive to be honest. I called it a day but the feeling felt kind of mutual and my reasons were because of how horrible she was being towards me.
She jumped straight into another relationship within weeks of us splitting up, after being together 4 years and blasted it all over facebook telling people how happy she is etc which I found quite hurtful and disrespectful to the time we spent together but in the same breath she owes me no explanation or thought.
Maybe I'm just pining for my own solace because for me I still loved her despite the fact we broke up and didnt work, I invested a lot of time in her and I've struggled to move on from her and even meet someone else because for me I'm still healing which I beleive is the right thing to do.
Just felt it a bit strange that her picture had changed when I passed her going through my messenger for someone else, cause if she's so happy with someone else then why snoop on me.
You're still making her a focus of your life. What good does that do you? What good does that do anyone else?
There are a few possibilities that I can think of off the top of my head:
1) The change of picture means nothing, just some aspect (intentional or not) of how Facebook works.
2) Facebook glitched and temporarily undid some of her blocking.
3) She unblocked you briefly by mistake, a simple misclick.
4) Someone with access to her account did it, by mistake or out of curiousity.
5) She unblocked you deliberately for a while to see how you're doing or out of curiousity or whatever.
And none of them matter. It would only matter if she started stalking you. There's no sign that she is.
Nothing good will come of this.
