Comparing sex with repeatedly smashing someone's face into a brick wall is not "a bit of a stretch". It's such a difference that the crux of the point is not the same at all.
admittedly it was a silly comparison, i can see and expect a comparative reaction in those spectating both situations but i appreciate others may not. i was just trying to guage what people would do in a similar but non sexual situation. i got the impression from some of the posts in the thread that because she appers to be a bit of a 'bike' it's ok to sit back and do nothing (at best)
1) We don't know how many of the accused men were taking part, how many were there and doing nothing or even how many were even there at the time.
it's the doing nothing thing i can't fathom. who would sit watching, or simply ignoring that situation? who wouldn't, other than those looking a cheap thrill, try and intervene in a rather bizarre situation? is everyone so blase about sex now that it's perfectly normal for a 19 year old girl to instigate what for want of a better word is an orgy with a bunch of strangers without at least 1 person in an group speaking up? is it ok for someone to video the event and 'leak' it without someone speaking up?
2) Don't try to tell me that a person consenting to group sex is the same as a person repeatedly smashing their face into a brick wall. The former is unusual but not wrong, the latter is suicidal in a particularly disturbing way.
no i'm not trying to tell you that they are the same thing. but I will tell you that a 19 year old girl actively looking for a gangbang outside of a porno is rare enough that someone in a group that size should have questioned what was going on. if you think different, well, there's not much i can say to that.
i had a group of friends when i was a 'lad' and to a man we would have, as the saying goes, shagged the crack of dawn. but i'm 100% certain had that been our group that this would either have not occured or some in the group would have had slap in the mouth. but maybe times have just moved on. maybe it is normal enough now for 19 year olds girls to behave like this without anyone thinking it was strange. if so, i'm glad my youth is behind me.