Like most here, I've been involved in IT for some time (it's also my career), so had a lot of experience with various devices, but would also echo what Moley has said to a degree.
When you learn to appreciate design, ergonomics, accessibility and experience over raw specs and feature lists, you can start to appreciate what makes Apple devices so good. I moved to iPhone with iPhone 6 after being a very die hard Android fan with Nexus devices etc. Whilst I lost a lot of features and openness in the OS for tweaking etc., I gained a device that was beautifully engineered and constructed versus the average android handset. The same is still true for iPads as well.
I recently also bought a Mac Mini second hand to try out the full Mac OS experience, and whilst it's not very upgradable versus a PC, it's a nice compact design and the OS works very nicely compared to a typical Windows PC. I liked it so much I picked up a second hand MacBook Pro as I know it'll get used more than the Mini (I still have a gaming PC at my desk). The devices hold their value amazingly well and even an old MacBook Pro from 2012 will still function relatively well today. Can't say that equivalent laptop or PC would age as well. My old iPad Air (original) is still going OK.
Again, not a fanboy at all, but as I've got older and started to appreciate different aspects, I've come to appreciate the Apple products a lot more. You do pay a premium, and whilst I can justify this with a phone, it's a bigger pill to swallow with tablets and computers (hence going second hand on these). They do last and work for longer I would say, plus hold their value, so if you plan to sell, total cost of ownership may actually be better than an Android equivalent.
This is around normal and/or professional type use cases. For children, I can't imagine the value proposition for Apple is quite the same with the use cases and chance of damage etc.