Hey Jonny - fellow "Belfastian" here!
My wife and I bought our first house 2 years ago - a small, 3 bed detached in North Belfast. I was insistent that we buy detached - I do not want to end up with nightmare neighbours! She was tempted with semis because of course you get more for your money!
The house was £158k and, at the time, I was on £40k and my wife £25k.
We put down a 25% deposit and got a 5 year fix @ 2.08%.
Repayments are £500 per month, plus £70 rates plus £38 for life and buildings & contents insurance (£23 for life cover and £180 per year for buildings and contents), so a total of £600 a month.
At the time, that was 15% of our take-home.
However, we deliberately went with a high deposit and low total to allow for contingencies.
A year or so ago, I quit my job (stress) without a job lined up, which was quite exciting. I was unemployed for about 3 months before finding a new job that is basically zero stress, but only pays £25k.
My wife has quit her job twice (fed up in one and bullied in another) and is currently not working. (We're idealists in that we hate working for money and prefer jobs that are enjoyable / worthwhile / not stressful).
This (small mortgage) allows us the freedom to do things like this. Currently, I can handle all the bills on my modest salary while she looks for meaningful work.
My opinion is that you are at your financial limit with that house, but as you can see, I prioritise freedom over a nice house.
My advice would be consider if you'd be happy with the mortgage if rates were to go to 5% and also how secure / happy your jobs are. Would you be able to pay the mortgage on one salary with rates @ 5%?
Great advice mate thanks for the detailed response! We are both quite fortunate as we both work in jobs we love in the IT industry (web development). It's a great industry to be in as there are no shortage of jobs and the pay is good. Infact we are still at the bottom bracket salary wise, so within the next few years we should be on a considerably higher income all being well.