When all your FAH installations are up and running execute FahMon from any direcotry, it does not have to be the same one as the FAH one. When you're at the main FahMon window right click in the upper left frame and click "Add a new client". Name the client (it can be anything) and browse to the location of the console. It should now load up when you click on the entry for that client. It's not exciting to watch as it moves through the work very slowly. It's just to see what it's doing; it's not entertainment.
Also, what machine is this that you've got 3 consoles running? If it's a Hyperthreaded Xeon box like mine you'll discover that if you allow -advmethos for all of then it hurts performance by saturating the system bus talking to the RAM. Also be sure to keep each console in a SEPARATE directory. Otherwise it gets confused looking for work files and will fail to work. You must also have a unique Machine ID number for each console or only one will run. I use one through 4 but you can use anything you want just as long as a number is not duplicated in the same system.
Oh, and you're not being a pain, we love to do this sort of stuff (at least I do).