Soldato
hi, a good m8 of mine foned me today she was very upset. basically her mom is trying to get her married to someone and she dont want to get married. shes plannin on bringin some1 over from pakistan (her dead sisters son) and letting him stay in their house then marrying him to her.
now shes told her mum loadsa times that she just dont want to get married, her mom though wont listen. she thinks she owes her sister something (cus shes dead) and is hellbent on bringin him here (by any way possible).
her mom cant force her to marry him thats 1 good thing at least.
she said to her mom that she would leave if she brought him over and her mom said leave then. now in **** culture this will bring a lot of shame her, there'll be loadsa stupid rumours about her leaving for some guy and her family wont respect her anymore. and that is gonna hurt her a lot.
now ive been thinkin for ages here and i think she only has a few choices. to either grass this guy up to the social services or to leave home.
really messed up situation, need some advice plz
now shes told her mum loadsa times that she just dont want to get married, her mom though wont listen. she thinks she owes her sister something (cus shes dead) and is hellbent on bringin him here (by any way possible).
her mom cant force her to marry him thats 1 good thing at least.
she said to her mom that she would leave if she brought him over and her mom said leave then. now in **** culture this will bring a lot of shame her, there'll be loadsa stupid rumours about her leaving for some guy and her family wont respect her anymore. and that is gonna hurt her a lot.
now ive been thinkin for ages here and i think she only has a few choices. to either grass this guy up to the social services or to leave home.
really messed up situation, need some advice plz