Bit of a bump for this thread, I'm still undecided!
The Mondeo is now out - it's too big unfortunately.
Focus - The only ones we like are the newer shape ST, but they're a couple of grand over budget, so are out.
Civic type S - She doesn't like them, and I'm not overly keen, so they're out.
Lean R Cupra - This is a possibility, what's the build quality like, aren't they basically a golf underneath? Would they be an uncomfortably hard ride?
A3 3.0 V6 - Are these any good? They're a little bit older for the budget, and the interiors seem incredible nasty on some of them...
S3 - With a stretch of budget, these are possible, how would these be in terms of reliability, and would the running costs be silly?
Which leaves me with the Astra 2.0T 04/05ish plate. I quite like the look of these, the engine sounds quick enough, and I like my brother-in-laws. Why does OCUK motors dislike Vauxhalls? Are there actual problems, or is it just a bit of lolvauxhall? Are they terribly built? Absolutely dire to drive?
I realise this is a lot of questions, but I'm confused, and after years of reading OCUK and thinking lolvauxhall whenever I see one, I'm now seriously considering getting one and can't actually think of a valid reason not to!
Thanks for any help.
edit - It seems to be a toss up between an Astra, A3 and Leon, with preference in that order.