Am i being tight ( gf related thread )?

[Marky]

Go out for a drink and just go sit down, sit in silence until she offers.

Hold your steely reserve.

Don't faulter.

If she doesn't say anything after about 30 mins, nutt her and walk out.

This

It's a psychological game

 

[dal]

Man up and pay the bill, do you want to **** her or not

Allready done that a few times mate.

Should explain that allthough we have only been out 3 times together I've been round to hers a number of other times as well

Think I'll drop a few subbtle hints tonight and see what happens.... get ready for the I've been dumped thread tomorrow

 

[dowie]

Hopefully the ladies remember to bring their pay slips to the date.

Or you just use common sense.

Taking a student out for cocktails won't be appreciated much on her part if you're paying £20 a round and splitting it 50/50.

 

[MiNxYyY]

he does not know yet

3rd date? He should know already.

 

[*Moangroan*]

tight gits dont get no pasty

lol

 

[dsb]

When you walk in the bar ask for a beer as you walk to the gents, easy. Get her in the habit of getting the drinks in.

 

[Mark M]

Depends how good looking she is.

Good = free ride.
Munter = she buys the drinks!

 

[franco_22]

In some cultures women never pay.

Is she or are her parents foreign?

 

[^TANK^]

tight gits dont get no pasty

 

[Cosmic182]

Discard

 

[CharlieAlbert]

shes tight for not going half

 

[Yas786]

As a bloke I wouldn't expect someone I was dating to pay any of it in the first few months. With the right girl it works out down the line anyhow.

Spot on...

 

[Vonhelmet]

Sort it asap. You're blatantly not happy about it, so the sooner you sort it, the less money you'll pee up the wall.

Unless she's dirty as.

 

[sanaxe1]

I don't mind paying for it all however she has to at least offer to contribute which i will decline. This generosity tends to last aslong as the sex does.

 

[guyfawkes5]

Just slip in 'do you want to catch this one?' at the end of the meal or at the pub, it's hardly unreasonable and it'll only be as awkward as you make it.

 

[MisChief]

I don't understand this whole 'guys should pay' nonsense... I always insist on paying for my own things or going half, I don't like to feel as if I owe anybody anything.

 

[uvarvu]

I don't get it either. As mentioned in previous posts I'll gladly pay for the first few times but I'd expect the girl to at least offer further down the line.

 

[alex_tank]

What's her job, does she not earn much?

 

[Deleted member 77746]

Tell her straight you big pansy! Well to be fair does she work full time or what? Explain to her you will pay half and she will pay half. Don't be a fool and pay for it all. Been there done that got the Blue Ray DVD!!!!!

 

[goldilocks]

There is a difference between asking
Can I take you to dinner? (you'll pay)
Do you fancy going out for a meal? (halfsies)
IMO!