any blokes here in a relationship with an older woman?

I'm not exactly in a full blown relationship, just taking things slow and getting on with uni mainly.. feel bad for her at times because of this but I must be selfish now of all times and get on with Uni.

Shes 3 years older than me, she's going to be 25 soonish. Smart, good looking, and still has her fun kiddie moments. It's obvious she likes me a hell of a lot more than I feel for her. Met a few months back through friends on a night out and just went from there. Only issue is she seems to easy which puts me off some what.
 
[TW]Fox;17662703 said:
I think I probably worded that a bit wrong - I mean other stuff as well. Surely it's good to be with somebody at the same stage in life as you? A 25 year old and a 40 year old are both at completely different stages in life and want different things out of life.

Plus with a gap that big, one day one of you is going to be an OAP with a coach holiday fetish whilst the other is still living life to the full and working..
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this is what broke the deal for me. i've been getting very well acquanted with a woman who is 40 next year, i'm 31 next month. the bed stuff was great and the conversation enlightening but always in the back of my mind was that i was in my prime, she was at the end of hers. if i wanted to leave on a plane tomorrow and travel, i could, she couldn't, i want to live in aus or nz when i'm 40, she'd be nearly 50. as gutting as it was, i just couldn't counteract those facts.
 
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I think I probably worded that a bit wrong - I mean other stuff as well. Surely it's good to be with somebody at the same stage in life as you? A 25 year old and a 40 year old are both at completely different stages in life and want different things out of life.

Plus with a gap that big, one day one of you is going to be an OAP with a coach holiday fetish whilst the other is still living life to the full and working..
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On a similar theme, my brother was in a relationship with a 35 year old when he was 21. They got along great and were going great guns when about a year in she started dropping hints about wanting kids. Needless to say he moved out and on pdq (several years down the line she has met and is with someone closer to her age and now has a small brood of children so everyones a winner)
 
BlackCoat2k10 said:
Only issue is she seems to easy which puts me off some what.
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Typical guy mistake, doesn't know he's onto a good thing ;)

I've dated women 10yrs older and younger. Hasn't worked out so far, but that was because they were all mental innit :D

Seriously though, age has never been an issue and I wouldn't let it. If you are attracted it's because you are on the same (hopefully) wavelength. Mates like to boast in the pub when they are with sigificantly older/younger women, but it shouldn't matter.
 
having dated someone for around 9 months when i was 32 and she was 40 it doesn;t really matter TBH. The older you get the bigger the acceptable age gap IMO. if you were 24 then a 16 year old will freak you and almost everyone else out. If you're 32 then I doubt many people would bat an eyelid at a 24 year old, or even someone 20 years old, other than to shake you by the hand and say 'nice one!' :) The same would apply to you being 30 and someone even 45 years old.

I've not done the younger thing in a serious relationship at all but have smashed a few younger pasties in my time and TBH it's not the age, but the attraction. Once they're, say, 18+ it doesn't matter if you're 15 years older or not, just go for it if it feels good.

And it's true. The older they get, the filthier they get. it's like they realise what goes on in the bedroom (and the kitchen, the sofa, the shower and anywhere else when it takes your fancy) is fair game if both parties are willing and open to it.
 
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I'm in a relationship with a younger lass (she's 21 i'm 24, not a big gap) and all my GF's/flings bar one have been with girls younger than me.

On a side note the couple (engaged) i'm living with with atm - he's 32 this month and she's just turned 21 :D great success!
 
I know a bloke that's 35 going out with a 82 year old , however he's not right in the head and drinks a lot. Not my friend either lol just know him
 
I was 20 and spend 2 years with a 35 year old bloke. All was fine til he ran off with the secretary at work.

Since then i've gone out with people mostly younger than me, other than one exception who was/is 5 years older than me.
 
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