Anyone else feel like they don't deserve the girl they are currently with?

If you keep telling your partner they are too good for you, it's only a matter of time before they start to believe it.

Enjoy the fact you have her and appreciate the fact that she must be with you for a reason.

Stop being such an emotive drip about it.
 
Matt-Page said:
Women find confidence attractive. It makes them feel safe. If you gobsayibg any of this garbage she will be trading you in for a real man. Look, she's with you. Enjoy it and get some confidence befor you drive her away.
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^^^^ This.

Carry on the way you are and she will just find someone else who isnt constantly questioning himself.

Man up, grow some, smash pasty.
 
No, I think she's constantly skating on thin ice ;)

The one bird that constantly made remarks about me being too good for her, no matter how many times I told her the opposite (whether true or not), got binned when I grew tired of her saying the same thing over and over.
 
I'm with Nix about the worlds colliding and being equal i'm not saying i dont occasionally wonder why i've been blessed such an amazing gf i just feel that if you really know your gf usually you can workout why they love you so much and vice versa.for instance my gf is very confident and wont shy away from someone giving her grief. but i know that through school she was bullied by both friends and just horrible ppl and i think on a subconsious level she looks for confident ppl who will protect her and keep her safe so due to my size and interest in mixed martial arts i might aswell have been wearing a high vis vest when we met. so what i'm saying is your gf is with you for a reason it might not clear why but dont sell yourself short she's getting what she needs from you just a much as you are from her and if you love each other than not else matters just enjoy.
 
groen said:
I don't deserve a girl friend, i don't have one and i don't deserve one. :(
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Don't worry, you won't have one if you keep thinking like that.

Best cure to thinking you're not good enough for your gf: find a girl you'd rather have instead. Your current gf will suddenly seem far less amazing. Then you can be happy together!! Wait....no
 
So because your with her your worrying that your not good enough? Look at it from a possible scenario further down the line. You break up, look back on your relationship and think why the hell did I spend most of the time worrying, you'll kick yourself (or if you don't, I will).

She's with you because she thinks you are deserving of her. Get over yourself and enjoy life.
 
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