Alpha had double the regeneration rate of the beta for labour than the Beta does. Did you do anything else with your labour points? It does not sound like you did tbh.
Yeah I built those same structures in beta too.
I crafted metalworking, but didn't do any other crafts aside from that, did the occasional traderun, other than that, a normal amount of gathering, farming and opening of coinpurses. Not too intensive a list admittedly, but I played for a good 5 or 6 hours a day and never ran out of things to do.
I didn't have a tractor or car, but then I don't need one, plenty of folks in the guild with one, so I'd just team up with them.
The thatched with farm that I had, counts as a medium house I believe. In live I would actually have fewer houses than the houses I had in beta, because there would be no need for me to have more than 1 house..no point, so in Live, I will only be paying for 1 house and 2 farms. So actually will be less for me in terms of taxes in live.
Could be that the thatched farm is the same as the small on taxes, but again..I don't need a bigger house, got guild shared houses for that. So just a smallish personal house is all I need.