Are you happy with your body and looks?

At 21 I believe there is still time for me to bulk up if I need to and as long as my hair doesn't take on its own personal identity in the form of Cousin It or an uncropped hedge them i'm a-ok.
 
Hell to the no. I used to be around 25st 7lb or so about 2 years ago, but over that length of time I've managed to lose weight, dropping to the 15st 7lb I am today through a combination of diet & exercise. Obviously loosing that much weight means I'm left with excess skin, which to be honest destroys any gain in self-esteem derived from the weight loss (Hell, I shouldn't be proud of dropping that much weight anyway, I should have never let it get that bad in the first place, but I digress) As a result I'm terrified of appearing undressed in front of others, and will go to great lengths to avoid it. Naturally, that means I also steer clear of the opposite sex, I'm too ashamed to even consider a relationship, even when girls have approached me in the past.

However, looking to the future I intend to press on, and get myself down to approximately 14st-13.5st, whilst building muscle which will hopefully offset some of the damage, then look to surgery. I'm embarking on a career which will hopefully see me earn enough to afford it some day. Whilst I'm not happy with my body image now, and angry with myself for letting it get that way, I feel there is hope that one day, I will be happy and confident in my own appearance.

Edit: As a footnote, I am happy with my face however, so all is not lost.
 
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Sp00n said:
Key word there, as Minxy said, they are never happy!
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I think she's very secure, at least. Not one to moan about being 'ugly' or whatever and admits she's fine with her body.

I'd also like to add my thin crown(hair). I've had a large crown for as long as I can remember but every now and then someone will spot it and claim I'm going bald. :(
 
Body is shaping up nicely, got decent hair and a decent above average height.

Like chrome polishing a turd though when you see my face :D
 
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