I support the personal of the armed forces, they have a job to do and they ought to get the best equipment that we can afford and have the backing of a modern support system with modern technologies.
My criticism would be more directed towards those in charge that make the political decisions initially to deploy forces and then to those in charge who make operation decisions which cause the potentially unnecessary loss of innocent lives.
I won't support the military "to the hilt" because that would be wrong.
As for backing the families, I'm less sure because I'm unsure of what backing you are referring to. They should be offered emotional support, as should anyone whos loved one dies, and the bravery that the soldier has hopefully demonstrated should be praised. However, we should also recognise the deaths of the civillians who our soldiers have killed. This is something that is rarely done.
As Longbow says, there is no reason to be proud of our soldiers anymore than I'm proud of the bin men that collect my bin on time each week and take all my rubbish away. The soldiers decide to go into the job that they do and are aware of the possibility of combat deployment. I'm not particularly proud of anyone who does their job to the degree to which it is expected.
It's not insensitive at all. Why should the majority give up their freedoms just to satisfy the happiness of a few mourning parents?
Yes, the political decisions are not always of the best and its the armed forces that then have to deal with it.
As for backing the families pretty much what you said. However dislike the negative and way beyond the mark comments such as from Azhar Ahmed. You can express your view point without resorting to the way he put it. I would not want any family who had lost a soldier to have read what he wrote.
Yes civillian losses are bad, and reporting could be better.
The pride towards the armed forces is that yes they do choose to join, although in doing this show bravery and a devotion to queen and country. I suspect most would not be willing to take the risks they do, more risks than a bin man.
I would hope the majority do not share the total view of Azhar Ahmed, and the way he presented it.
That's the sort of mentality that Germans had circa WW2.
Obviously I don't agree with his "all soldiers should die" rant but before he went off on one he made good points, we lose one soldier and the nation/media is in mourning and yet there have been over 100,000 civilian deaths at the hands of our forces since the occupations began (source Wikileaks).
What makes our soldiers lives any more valuable than those civilians we're killing? if you put a lion in a cage to protect a cat from a dog and he kills both whose fault is it? nobody has the backbone/will to question authority anymore, we're pretty much ripe in the West for a new warmonger like Hitler to come to power.
Firstly I don't want it to end up as you put it the Germans circa WW2. When I say to the hilt, its obviously with current policies. If those incharge were to go extreme, then yes this view would change. However, I don't see this happening to the level you are comparing it to occuring anytime soon.
The life is only more valuable in the sense they are from your country and so it is reported on more. In reality no, they are another human and so the loss is the same. Yes many civillians have been lost, and its terrible. As I've said I don't think we should be there.