I don't need kids to know that if I develop a problem I fix by getting help or change scene otherwise it gets worse.
Don't get me wrong, you're spot on. I agree with you.
As you can probably tell from my post I realise I'm not cut out for teaching but I have possibly a more understanding standpoint when it comes to people whose patience is tested by children. Let's just say that now my patience is pushed to it's limits on a daily basis (by my own kids) I have a slightly less than utopian view on how kids should be coped with.
It's interesting to note that my dad was a teacher for 30+years. He has the same naturally aggressive personality as I do (lots of "red energy" as a behavioural psychologist once described me) but back in his day when teaching was a highly respected profession they were given more tools to cope with the little monsters. For example shouting, smacking, grabbing by the ear etc.
Now I don't want a debate about the rights and wrongs of that kind of control but I will say that just about all of my father's ex-pupils go out of their way to ask about my dad and pass on their regards and best wishes, including some of the trouble makers.

