Best mate and your sister

[GinG]

Have you a pic of your sister? It will help in the decision process as to wether we should let them be happy together as they may not get another chance at love.

I for one would find it a little awkward however I would much prefer to know the guy well, who would take care of her and make her happy. Maybe one day get married & live it a nice 5 bedroom house, detached double garage, 2 kids (Robert & Julia) running around the lush green garden, both growing old together, watching the kids grow up and eventually have grandchildren.

You could always threaten your mate away she gets together with some chav and low life you don't even know. He leads her down a crack filled path, a life full of prostitution, she has 5 kids all in care homes, you will never have chance to meet them as she is in no fit state to look after. Just think of the thought of every day & every night wondering what she is up to, if she is safe, and hope to god she doesnt get HIV or overdoses.

Up to you mate, end of day it is your sister!

 

[ChrisJSY]

You have the group who think it is something you shouldn't do because of some made up social restrictions they place on siblings/ex's etc.

Then the group who see logic and realise that it's NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

 

[elmarko]

Think of it this way, if your sister had a really really hot friend, would you go there?.

 

[tonym]

You've told your best mate you're uncomfortable with it, and he's still sniffing round her.
Doesn't say much for what your mate thinks of you.

 

[Elixir]

I am 28 this year, they are 16 - 17, therefore way too young

Haven't you heard the rule? Age divided by 2.

 

[Castiel]

Haven't you heard the rule? Age divided by 2.

So a 20 year old and a 10 year old.....

 

[shaank]

Does he have a sister? If not, get with his mother.

this

 

[Raymond Lin]

So a 20 year old and a 10 year old.....

He forgot "+7"

 

[The Halk]

You've told your best mate you're uncomfortable with it, and he's still sniffing round her.
Doesn't say much for what your mate thinks of you.

Apparently she does this thing with her tongue, I don't blame his mate.

 

[Castiel]

He forgot "+7"

Try telling that to the Judge......

 

[Elixir]

He forgot "+7"

That's just too restricting. I forgot nothing.

 

[TommyV]

As long as she is happy, let him know the ground rules beforehand.

No real problem in it per say, he just needs to respect the fact that you two are related. I.e. no talk of how he plowed your sister in, and the such like.

 

[George Hincapie]

Never understood the whole thing around sisters and mates.

Is that because you haven't got a sister or any mates?

 

[George Hincapie]

No real problem in it per say,

Per se

 

[Sash]

Per se

Percy?

 

[jaws104]

If it happened to someone else i'm sure i'd say the same thing, it's their life etc. etc. I'm just a bit ****ed he had the gall to do it despite me.

You have the group who think it is something you shouldn't do because of some made up social restrictions they place on siblings/ex's etc.

Then the group who see logic and realise that it's NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.

It may effect my friendship with this person if he goes through with it, that's my problem fair enough, but if it effects my friendship it effects his. On that basis it has something to do with me. Surely you can see the logic

 

[bledd]

I'm marrying the sister of two of my mates

I asked them both before going out with her, if they had a problem, I wouldn't have done it

 

[George Hincapie]

Percy?

Wasn't he the Blue Peter gardener? </old age>

 

[kingbal]

chin up!

 

[Jokester]

You want your sister to be with someone decent?

Your mate is a decent guy?

They are both adults?

Sounds like you are the one who have the problem.

This.