I can't control what other people say, I can only post what i think. In part I agree with you, the Uniroyal thing drives me bonkers, I think they are crap (Had them on my Xantia), but it just isnt worth fighting the crowd on that one.
Personally I think the V plate 328i looks nice and with a private plate on it would be a nice buy - but it is an old car and it won't be plain sailing.
I am sincere, open and honest with the advice I give on these cars. And none of it is hyperbole, most of it's from personal experience, backed up with the sort of things i pick up from obviously spending a lot of time hanging about in various BMW communities.
I do have a particular bugbear with BMW reliability because it dissapoints me. It's a shame these cars are not as bulletproof as the reputation leads you to beleive. I love the cars and everything about them but I cannot defend them against claims of unreliability. Heck I'm even having to modify my own purchasing habits to avoid exposore to comically stupid bills.