Sorry to hear all your sad stories 
My mum's currently in hospital recovering from a total mastectomy and reconstruction on her sole remaining 'good' breast. She had full-blown breast cancer in 2002-3 after they spotted a shadow on the routine scan, resulting in a mastectomy (with reconstruction) and removal of the lymph nodes from her left arm. This was followed up with chemo which was arguably more harrowing for all of us than the surgery. Thankfully she was declared as being in remission in 2005.
Sadly they spotted some lumps in her other 'good' breast this summer and did a keyhole op to remove them for biopsy. They turned out to be DCIS and there were more that they didn't get first time. They offered more keyhole surgery but my mum took the very brave decision to have her remaining 'good' breast tissue removed to (hopefully) eliminate this from happening again and preclude and chemo or radio therapy.
It's been a tough month or so but I am thankful that I still have her. All this after she had a malignant melanoma on her leg whilst pregnant with me. Thank God she's a fighter...

My mum's currently in hospital recovering from a total mastectomy and reconstruction on her sole remaining 'good' breast. She had full-blown breast cancer in 2002-3 after they spotted a shadow on the routine scan, resulting in a mastectomy (with reconstruction) and removal of the lymph nodes from her left arm. This was followed up with chemo which was arguably more harrowing for all of us than the surgery. Thankfully she was declared as being in remission in 2005.
Sadly they spotted some lumps in her other 'good' breast this summer and did a keyhole op to remove them for biopsy. They turned out to be DCIS and there were more that they didn't get first time. They offered more keyhole surgery but my mum took the very brave decision to have her remaining 'good' breast tissue removed to (hopefully) eliminate this from happening again and preclude and chemo or radio therapy.
It's been a tough month or so but I am thankful that I still have her. All this after she had a malignant melanoma on her leg whilst pregnant with me. Thank God she's a fighter...