Dead end relationship

Caporegime
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Anyone else in one? I feel like I'm just making do, I'm not really happy... I know I should break it off but I keep feeling sorry for her and can't.

I don't think I'd be any more/less happy being single.

I'm not the only one with this problem surely?
 
Have you spoken to her about how you feel or your concerns? If not, do this as soon as possible because it can take a huge weight off your chest and go a long way to making things work again.

How much time do you spend with her? If you see her more than once a week, there might be the opportunity to make amends. Post the aforementioned talk, do you still feel doubts when you see her? If so, can you see things getting better? If you can't it really is time to move on, for both your sakes.

Couple of times a week, there's no 'longing' or 'want' to see her, it's just mundane and boring.
 
been there, done that, dragged it out for a few months, made it even worse when I told her I'd been doubting the relationship for a while, she felt I'd just been using her etc.
Hated myself for doing it to her, and haven't spoken to her since.

Talk to her and find out where she is, if there's any chance of carrying on, try it, but let her know what's going on so she doesn't think it comes out of the blue one day when you say "I'm not happy, goodbye"

I've talked to her before but I don't think she can let go, this isn't the first time the thoughts crossed my mind though, I think maybe half a dozen times so far.
 
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