It's very niche market - and this software makes the competitors look good

I have the support of my company - by MD level I mean our MD has shouted at their MD many a time

We know we're in a crap position - nothing we can do though

No-one is going to invest the £200,000+ to build a competing product that is properly supported for the small potential client base.
We have the box in our rack, along with a backup box in another building that the backup is restored to on a weekly basis. There is a nightly full backup and an hourly "transaction log" backup - does that sound normal?
We used to have access to the hyper-v manager but now have nothing. I assume we would be given access to that again to assist with rebuilding. I'd definitely have to reconfigure the PERC as of course going from a RAID 5 to a RAID 10 with twice the number of disks. Their MD would be on the phone for support if/when required and for the start up after the work is done to ensure all is well.
I can "do" hyper-v especially on HP boxes, but Dell is an unknown to me and SQL is utterly alien! But for this work the only issue is the Dell hardware and I have found the guides for the server (not particularly needed hopefully) and the PERC (very useful!).
If I can clear my ML330 off in time I might be able to persuade them to setup a replica and then just replicate it back again afterwards (and would mean if it goes boobies then it should at least run albeit slowly!). Not sure if the dissimilar hardware would be an issue on hyper-v server 2012 (not R2)?