I'd say it's compounded by virtue of the stress we are under in daily life. You need to earn a good wage to live with any sense of luxury/enjoyment (as the world perceives it), the employment market is ridiculously competitive so you need to push yourself harder there, housing prices and general food/bills/etc are getting stupid, and once you're in that rut, it's really hard to get out. My wife and I bring in over £60K between us, we own a 3 bed semi, 2 old hot hatches, have a couple of cats and can't afford to save at the moment.
It saddens me that if I was 10 years older (i.e. was where I am now but 10 years ago), I'd have a much better house, likely lower mortgage repayments, and a little more money to play with at the end of the month.
I feel like a total slave, and am getting to the point where I want to jack it all in and live somewhere more conducive to a relaxed lifestyle before I become a statistic when I hit 45. All the nice **** I own is starting to seem less and less appealing as I realise what owning it ultimately means.