Ever did something you regretted ?

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About 3 weeks ago I split with my long term girlfriend on the grounds that I wasnt happy in the relationship.

Well now i really regret it, as I do miss her an aweful lot, all the things that annoyed me before just seem so meaningless and pathetic I don't know why I felt like I did towards the end.

I haven't spoken to her yet about this as I have no idea if I should or not.

Do think I should talk to her or would it be better for her not me, to just back away. She was devestated when we split and I obviously don't want to cause anymore pain for her as I care about her more than she realised and I let on.
 
Not really fair to her, she'll be well on her way to recovery by now. If you think it'll last this time then talk to her, if you're not certain, say nothing, it was your mistake!
 
What makes you think it would be any different once you're back together? You're both still the same people, nothing will have changed in 3 weeks. A few weeks down the line once you're back in that comfortable zone, you'll probably start thinking along the same old lines.

By all means talk to her about it but make sure you think about it first.

Oh and pasty etc.
 
Give me her number and I'll smooth things over for you. I can't be held resposnsibile if she succumbs to my charms though.
 
You broke up with her once before over the same thing?

Did you feel this way last time?

Is it honestly likely to happen again down the line?

Don't drag her along just because you're a bit lonely.
 
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