Soldato
NOTE: I will be consulting a solicitor over this matter. I just wanted to get the thoughts from some of you on here before I go down the that route.
NOTE 2: The ex an I are on good terms and have been since splitting up many years ago
For the last 10-12 years I have been living in the house, myself and my ex purchased with a mortgage. We are both still on the mortgage. It has been mortgaged for a few years longer than the time I haved lived her without her. I think 15 years in total.
I am currently married with 2 children (4 and 1) and we are in no way ready to move/sell financially as my wife is at college and fingers crossed going to Uni later this year and I am just on a little over minimum wage as a chef.
Money wise, times are tough for us as a family. We are 'ok' but we don't have enough to save every month.
Anyway.
During the time I have lived her without the ex I have paid the mortgage fully. I did fall into bad times where money was an issue and the mortgage and other bills suffered as a result. Things got better and bills are paid on time now. She helped out for a couple of months to pay the mortgage during my bad times but said she will have it out of my share of equity once we sell it in the future. I din't actually agree to this but she will still think she will get a cut of my share of equity coming my way.
Going by house prices around my here, not had it valued yet, its probably a 2k over the mortgage value so not a great deal of equity if any at all. That would probably be lost due to haggling down as you do when selling/buying a house.
She messaged me the other day saying we need to talk about selling the house as she needs the money from it to put towards a mortgage of her own. I think she thinks it's will be valued a fair bit over the mortgage value as it stands. I know it won't.
First up I know she can't sell with my permission unless it goes through the courts and even then they would deny the sale due to my wife and children. I have the right to occupy and so does my wife.
I am thinking this may turn nasty at some point as aI know what she is like, or can get like.
Regarding the actual mortgage payments, is there anyway I can claim more of the sale if equity is big enough due to me paying for the last 10 or so years or would it just be 50/50. Could a court rule in my favour due to her being in a very well paid job and myself not so and for me and my family to sell and move on would require a good amount of money for deposits/rent/etc and as our current financial situation is not very good?
What say you GD? *puts on flame proof jacket as I can imagine some of the replies*
NOTE 2: The ex an I are on good terms and have been since splitting up many years ago
For the last 10-12 years I have been living in the house, myself and my ex purchased with a mortgage. We are both still on the mortgage. It has been mortgaged for a few years longer than the time I haved lived her without her. I think 15 years in total.
I am currently married with 2 children (4 and 1) and we are in no way ready to move/sell financially as my wife is at college and fingers crossed going to Uni later this year and I am just on a little over minimum wage as a chef.
Money wise, times are tough for us as a family. We are 'ok' but we don't have enough to save every month.
Anyway.
During the time I have lived her without the ex I have paid the mortgage fully. I did fall into bad times where money was an issue and the mortgage and other bills suffered as a result. Things got better and bills are paid on time now. She helped out for a couple of months to pay the mortgage during my bad times but said she will have it out of my share of equity once we sell it in the future. I din't actually agree to this but she will still think she will get a cut of my share of equity coming my way.
Going by house prices around my here, not had it valued yet, its probably a 2k over the mortgage value so not a great deal of equity if any at all. That would probably be lost due to haggling down as you do when selling/buying a house.
She messaged me the other day saying we need to talk about selling the house as she needs the money from it to put towards a mortgage of her own. I think she thinks it's will be valued a fair bit over the mortgage value as it stands. I know it won't.
First up I know she can't sell with my permission unless it goes through the courts and even then they would deny the sale due to my wife and children. I have the right to occupy and so does my wife.
I am thinking this may turn nasty at some point as aI know what she is like, or can get like.
Regarding the actual mortgage payments, is there anyway I can claim more of the sale if equity is big enough due to me paying for the last 10 or so years or would it just be 50/50. Could a court rule in my favour due to her being in a very well paid job and myself not so and for me and my family to sell and move on would require a good amount of money for deposits/rent/etc and as our current financial situation is not very good?
What say you GD? *puts on flame proof jacket as I can imagine some of the replies*