He was probs too clingy and the gf never got to spend time with her friends. That or she is sleeping with someone else, your only option is to stalk her and find out who it is.
gf broke up with me, how do i get the pain away ?
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He was probs too clingy and the gf never got to spend time with her friends. That or she is sleeping with someone else, your only option is to stalk her and find out who it is.
I'm another recent dumpee.
My mates have got me through my splits in the past and the present one. They're always on the phone, dragging me out places and generally just checking in to make sure I'm ok. I feel very lucky.
Keep yourself busy, go about your daily routine as if you would normally..ie go to work/uni/whatever and soon you'll start to notice her absence less and less.
Tbh if that is the way she is going to dump you then she doesn't deserve you anyway. What a coward.
My mates have got me through my splits in the past and the present one. They're always on the phone, dragging me out places and generally just checking in to make sure I'm ok. I feel very lucky.
Keep yourself busy, go about your daily routine as if you would normally..ie go to work/uni/whatever and soon you'll start to notice her absence less and less.
Tbh if that is the way she is going to dump you then she doesn't deserve you anyway. What a coward.
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Soldato
But he said he never told her what to do, I have a feeling he's not telling the entire truth and it's entirely possible he knows why. But I've seen and been a part in enough break ups where one or both sides make up stories to get people on their side/sympathy/to feel better.
Caporegime
You do know where you are, yeah? And how well girl trouble threads are usually received around here?
And if things need reporting, get reporting. You know where the button is.
Soldato
Pro-tip; she's got a new feller, and she wishes to sleep with many more. You are a cast iron anchor, sinking to the bottom of the ocean.
With that said, I suggest you get wasted, and go find yourself a rebound. You'll feel much better in a week or so.
With that said, I suggest you get wasted, and go find yourself a rebound. You'll feel much better in a week or so.
You been with her for over a year...... And no naked pics??? Are you gay?
Dumb post is dumb.
The fact that she split up with you over email shows that she is particularly immature, I mean that's just pathetic.
The best you can do is keep yourself occupied, work extra hours or spend more time with your friends, don't dwell on it as best you can but don't rush in to anything with anyone else right now, if it happens then great but don't go out looking for it, you're in a different state of mind right now.
I fear there is more to the story, there always is, but that doesn't matter, it's over now so you're just going to have to accept it and carry on!
Also, 14 months sound's like a long time, but it really isn't, not in the grand scheme of things.
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Why couldn't she have girly nights out?
Never told her what to do? Women like this sometimes, it shows you are dominant and can make decisions, not just someone who says "you choose" "I don't mind what we do" etc.
Still, plenty more girls out there, and doing it over email, best shot of her. How old was she?
Never told her what to do? Women like this sometimes, it shows you are dominant and can make decisions, not just someone who says "you choose" "I don't mind what we do" etc.
Still, plenty more girls out there, and doing it over email, best shot of her. How old was she?
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No, you got told off for making a cringeworthy post that even a 15 year old would be embarrassed with.
Soldato
Move on mate, cowardly of her to do it by e-mail, had it done to me once too, distraught at the time but now I have nothing but contempt for her because of her reasoning and method of 'termination', don't do what I did and let it mess your mind up for way too long. Be strong instead!
How ironic
Man of Honour
An email dumping well that’s something to be proud of. At least you didn’t have an awful face to face. Just put your head down get busy in whatever you do and in no time you’ll be out there fishing again.
Soldato
See a good therapist.
Mine is called Jack Daniel's.
Mine is called Jack Daniel's.
She didn't even have the courtesy to say it to your face. That alone would suggest to me that she isn't worth quite as much respect as you think you might feel she deserves, having been your girlfriend.
It's going to hurt, obviously, but distance yourself from her and confide in close trusted friends and family. They will know you well enough to know what best to say.
As far as I'm concerned, one of the best things to do is to get some experiences and memories that don't include her. At the moment all you have is the raw memories of being and doing stuff together and that needs to change. Get out and about and begin to build a life that doens't include her.
It's going to hurt, obviously, but distance yourself from her and confide in close trusted friends and family. They will know you well enough to know what best to say.
As far as I'm concerned, one of the best things to do is to get some experiences and memories that don't include her. At the moment all you have is the raw memories of being and doing stuff together and that needs to change. Get out and about and begin to build a life that doens't include her.