girlfriend/life...........

ants83

ants83

ants83

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i met this girl 5 months ago and i love her to bits and she loves me too. She has 4 kids though and none of my friends or family like it, it really gets me down when im so happy i dont want to talk to my mates again or my family they hate the fact im with her. sorry for the rant i just want to say how i feel i am happy for once in my life.

does anybody here agree with me?
 
If you are absolutely sure then go for it, it's your life. However remember that the kids should come first, if you two split up then don't make them suffer.

Your family and friends have nothing to do with this, if they won't talk to you then that's their problem. They are however just worried about you - in other words they care.

Personally I wouldn't go near a woman with 4 kids, it's far too much to take on. Unless your 50+ :p
 
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OK, then. I dont see a problem with it. If they were from four different fathers than, IMO, I would stay well clear.

I would just ignore what everyone else says and do what ever makes you happy. Good luck
 
Stiff_Cookie said:
OK, then. I dont see a problem with it. If they were from four different fathers than, IMO, I would stay well clear.

I would just ignore what everyone else says and do what ever makes you happy. Good luck
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thanks i will go for it and like you say it does make me happy i love spending my time with her. I know its not an ideal situation but i cant help how i feel at the end of the day.
 
Some people will say "don't worry about what anyone else thinks, just as long as you're happy" and to a point, i agree, but don't sacrifice your whole life for someone.......especially someone with 4 kids.
 
Sheesh, 4 kids @ 24 years of age.
As said before, if it makes you happy, then why not, BUT thats a helluva lot of responsibility to swallow at such a young age!
 
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