Going out 'clubbing' with your partner...

_dogma_ · 20 Mar 2009 at 16:44

We'll sometimes go out with friends but the local clubs are terrible. When we lived in Edinburgh we went out most of the time. I've been out clubbing a few times without him but it's not as fun. Dancing with each other is a lot more fun, we can take the mick out of the neds dancing and just have a laugh at all the bladdered people falling over themselves!

Welshy · 20 Mar 2009 at 16:45

It doesn't really end up being a particularly good night if both me and the misses go clubbing together, with or without mates. Just doesn't gel well for some reason.

Defcon5 · 20 Mar 2009 at 16:48

krooton said:
Oh, you mean crap clubbing! I don't do that so I wouldn't know, lol.

What other type of clubbing is there? Or do you mean seal clubbing?

Heatsinked · 20 Mar 2009 at 16:51

Vixen said:
Is that even English? Just because you feel a certain way towards any girlfriends you've ever had doesn't mean every other male in the world is the same.

I think he means "Wick" - a word derived from cockney rhyming slang. You know what gets on my wick? Fights inside clubs / pubs that ruin the atmosphere and injure other people. There’s just no need for it. Take it outside, get arrested, learn from your mistake and don't do it again. Another reason why we tend to avoid clubs these days.

nicktay2605 · 20 Mar 2009 at 16:58

Going out clubbing with my girlfriend AND my friends/her friends is ok, but I wouldn't have such a good time if it was just the two of us. At least I can go out clubbing with my gf without ending the night in an argument though, one of my housemates always ends up arguing with his gf once they have both had a bit to drink!

krooton · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:18

Defcon5 said:
What other type of clubbing is there? Or do you mean seal clubbing?

The clubbing the OP meant:

The clubbing I meant:

bigdavecox1990 · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:22

This is going to sound very harsh, but I completely ignore my girlfriend, if she's out in the pub and I am also.

Illusion · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:25

krooton said:
The clubbing I meant:

To be fair the first 2 pictures don't look too lively, I agree fully with your point though

Illusion · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:26

bigdavecox1990 said:
This is going to sound very harsh, but I completely ignore my girlfriend, if she's out in the pub and I am also.

The date in your Username probably explains this.

Hedge · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:28

Vixen said:
Is that even English? Just because you feel a certain way towards any girlfriends you've ever had doesn't mean every other male in the world is the same.

Lol its not that, Its just the fact that when your with ya mates you can get sloshed, talk about women, discuss how annoying your lass can be etc, and then dance about like fools to finish.

When you go clubbing with a girl you spend most of your life with anyway, you have sod all to talk about, and unless you are both at a proper event where you wanna see a dj, or you are both into (proper) clubbing, then its likely to be a complete bore!

and i guess Getting on someones whick is just a term round here, like "gets on your nerves"

Delvis · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:31

krooton said:
Snip

It does annoy me when 'clubs' like Oceana and the like are associated with the clubs you and me go to

Pish · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:33

last time i went out with the gf clubbing we shared some shots, 10 mins later she was starting on 3 blokes over a spilt drink

down to yours truly to back her up......i did, luckily some of my mates saw and came over too so i didnt end up as a skidmark

we got free drinks, not that the gf needed anymore, now she can be the designated driver for her foolishness

oh and we walked home and she was wearing high heels (moaning about them hurting)

the pain of carrying her 0.5 miles on my back was too much

so she wore my shoes and i walked home in the damp with just socks carrying her stupid heels

no i dont like it

helpimcrap · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:33

i can't remember going to a club with a gf. there may be a bad reason for that lol.

Hedge · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:33

Delvis said:
It does annoy me when 'clubs' like Oceana and the like are associated with the clubs you and me go to

They are essentially just bars that are open late.

Cant knock a proper event like GK, Crasher, MoH, Sensation, Defqon etc

Delvis · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:36

Hedge said:
They are essentially just bars that are open late.

Cant knock a proper event like GK, Crasher, MoH, Sensation, Defqon etc

Indeed

Shame Sensation Black isn't on this year in the 'dam again

...Went last year and it was amazing.

Going to Inqontrol in April though, so hey.

Zefan · 20 Mar 2009 at 17:39

I've enjoyed going out with girlfriends in the past, but I must admit it's not exactly great.

I'd prefer to take them somewhere where we can talk/be romantic etc.

Amleto · 20 Mar 2009 at 18:02

i'm not a big fan of it tbh. If we just 'want to go out', then I wont fancy dancing to anything the crappy clubs round here play anyway. so there's no point going to anywhere that *blurts* out music cos we wont be dancin so just sitting there drinking overpriced beverages.

bailey12856 · 20 Mar 2009 at 18:05

I dont mind going out clubbing with the girlfriend, its not a bad night but generally I go out with my mates and her with her mates. But occasionally we either all meet up or end up in the same places anyway.

Hedge · 20 Mar 2009 at 18:14

bailey12856 said:
I dont mind going out clubbing with the girlfriend, its not a bad night but generally I go out with my mates and her with her mates. But occasionally we either all meet up or end up in the same places anyway.

Try going clubbing with just her. Its completely ****.

I dont care what anyone says! lol

Delvis · 20 Mar 2009 at 18:15

Hedge said:
Try going clubbing with just her. Its completely ****.

I dont care what anyone says! lol

Depends if you both enjoy the music really.....If you just 'like' it, then yes, I can see how it would be crap.