If they thought one male teacher might molest her then wouldn't two male teachers be considered at least twice as rapey (depending on the size of the teachers in question)?
Guy becoming teacher - used to be teaching assistant and was accused...
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Soldato
For the love of God, think of the children! Everyone is a potential paedo. Burn everyone! 
As said, he wasn't prosecuted, so there is a better than good chance the accusations are just that.
As said, he wasn't prosecuted, so there is a better than good chance the accusations are just that.
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I actually have no idea what is going on. I just couldn't decrypt meaning in this.
Thank you for being the first person to actually answer what I asked.
Not looking to go to the police, just perhaps let the governors of the old school know what he is planning so they can make that decision.
I think you've indirectly answered your own question there: stay away.
There's plenty of reasons to not interfere in something you have no real business to get involved with.
I (we) am only being being hard on you because it really is a very serious subject to broach on.
There is always a very, very good reason that lingering suspicions of his dubious behaviour hasn't been answered with any charges - the man is more than likely innocent. As has been mentioned before, schoolgirls do have an incredible capacity to make up the most vile things about their subject of loathing, especially in school as they do not fully understand the ramifications of such accusations.
I am in no way saying your girlfriend is a liar; just that these sorts of hearsay really are common and they really do easily paint teachers in a harsh light that they often totally do not deserve. I know of a teacher myself who's had this stigma for years simply because of his appearance which some spiteful and hateful girls didn't take a liking to. We all know those school kids.
The police do operate to a level that they are very very good at checking out said allegations and putting genuine paedophiles away, but the fact is that this man hasn't even been the target of any investigations strongly shine him in a light that shows he is innocent, whatever reputation he may hold.
All I am saying is, keep a level head and tread lightly; he may be a paedophile.... or he may not be at all, which is the overwhelmingly most likely scenario here.
Don't do this! Why should you go 'Oh I think this man's a paedophile' to these people? How could you?
Surely the person is innocent until proven guilty and if there were substantial grounds to prosecute he would have been arrested / charged.
Probably more likely this was a bunch of scum lowlife of girls + their family throwing false allegations.
Just look at the way parents are now always blaming the teachers and everyone else even if they really should be looking at themselves. I am not saying teachers etc are perfect just that there are other factors too.
And I seriously think areas (e.g. sexual allegations) like this because of the damage they can do to innocent people where proven to be false and malicious should lead to the accuser getting whatever punishment the defendent would have got, that would show the seriousness of false allegations.
Probably more likely this was a bunch of scum lowlife of girls + their family throwing false allegations.
Just look at the way parents are now always blaming the teachers and everyone else even if they really should be looking at themselves. I am not saying teachers etc are perfect just that there are other factors too.
And I seriously think areas (e.g. sexual allegations) like this because of the damage they can do to innocent people where proven to be false and malicious should lead to the accuser getting whatever punishment the defendent would have got, that would show the seriousness of false allegations.
I (we) am only being being hard on you because it really is a very serious subject to broach on.
There is always a very, very good reason that lingering suspicions of his dubious behaviour hasn't been answered with any charges - the man is more than likely innocent. As has been mentioned before, schoolgirls do have an incredible capacity to make up the most vile things about their subject of loathing, especially in school as they do not fully understand the ramifications of such accusations.
I am in no way saying your girlfriend is a liar; just that these sorts of hearsay really are common and they really do easily paint teachers in a harsh light that they often totally do not deserve. I know of a teacher myself who's had this stigma for years simply because of his appearance which some spiteful and hateful girls didn't take a liking to. We all know those school kids.
The police do operate to a level that they are very very good at checking out said allegations and putting genuine paedophiles away, but the fact is that this man hasn't even been the target of any investigations strongly shine him in a light that shows he is innocent, whatever reputation he may hold.
All I am saying is, keep a level head and tread lightly; he may be a paedophile.... or he may not be at all, which is the overwhelmingly most likely scenario here.
Thank you for a sensible reply.
Precisely why I am asking, If anyone was to know the true events and what happened surrounding the accusations it would be them, and they would most likely be unaware of his intentions, so could proceed as wanted.
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So if your girlfriend is correct and this isnt just malicious gossip, the governors of a school for very young children knew something was wrong and conspired to keep it from the Police to save face, sounds like you should be worried about far more than just this man. And your considering getting in touch with these people ? absolute disgrace, get your priorities straight.
I should add that if you do want to start somewhere and find out what the police made of the subject, you are best off going to the station that was involved and ask them what conclusion they made from the previous allegations that thus never amounted to any investigation. If you need definitive answers, they will hold them. Nobody gets accused of anything and nothing gets out into the open.
Good point, hadn't thought of that.
There are very harsh consequences to fail accusations..
Soldato
so somebody told you that they heard something had happened at a school which they once attended....years after they left ?
you might want to let the actual people involved deal with with this one.
you might want to let the actual people involved deal with with this one.
It is up to the Girl's who were allegedly assaulted to make formal complaints, this is a very serious allegation and if, as you say, the school closed because of them and the Police did not charge this guy then in all probability the claims against him were spurious and gossip.
My advice is to leave well alone.
My advice is to leave well alone.
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It's nothing to do with you. Leave it well alone.
A friend of my aunt was a janitor and got accused. He was suspended for whilst the claims were investigated (12 months). His name was printed all over the local paper and he became ill because of the stress only for the girl to admit she made it up just before it went to court.
Accusations don't just mess with people's livelihood, they can seriously damage their mental health. I'm sure there was a guy on here who got falsely accused as well and it ruined his life for a year. Mobile/computer etc.. all taken away.
A friend of my aunt was a janitor and got accused. He was suspended for whilst the claims were investigated (12 months). His name was printed all over the local paper and he became ill because of the stress only for the girl to admit she made it up just before it went to court.
Accusations don't just mess with people's livelihood, they can seriously damage their mental health. I'm sure there was a guy on here who got falsely accused as well and it ruined his life for a year. Mobile/computer etc.. all taken away.
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If this guy was guilty, it's likely he would have already been prosecuted by now. The amount of child protection systems being implemented in schools these days is already somewhat excessive and it's almost impossible for something like this to go unnoticed. Although I can only speak for secondary schools, it would be safe to assume that child protection taken even more seriously at the primary level.
Just as an example, on my first day on the job I was told to make sure I am never alone with a female pupil (e.g. if a pupil is kept behind for detention), for the sole reason that if ever an accusation is made, I can cover my ass. Girls are evil, fact.
Just as an example, on my first day on the job I was told to make sure I am never alone with a female pupil (e.g. if a pupil is kept behind for detention), for the sole reason that if ever an accusation is made, I can cover my ass. Girls are evil, fact.
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lol schoolgirls
Yes, sick things happen sometimes, I'm sure there have been a couple of genuine incidents that were sorted out very quickly at the secondary school I went to, but more often than not... It's utter bull formulated by failures of adolescence trying to do something big.
Yes, sick things happen sometimes, I'm sure there have been a couple of genuine incidents that were sorted out very quickly at the secondary school I went to, but more often than not... It's utter bull formulated by failures of adolescence trying to do something big.
A school can't just keep a secret like that and decide not to take it to the police, because the governing bodies of the school would have to be informed and anyone found to have kept it from authorities would have recieved counter-charges.
On top of that, the girls parents certainly wouldn't have kept it quiet for the sake of the school, at a request - unless they were totally sick and offered tens of thousands each by the school (which won't have happened) and agreed.
So basically, I can tell you right now any allegations are bs and to stop being such a tool.
On top of that, the girls parents certainly wouldn't have kept it quiet for the sake of the school, at a request - unless they were totally sick and offered tens of thousands each by the school (which won't have happened) and agreed.
So basically, I can tell you right now any allegations are bs and to stop being such a tool.
Had a teacher at my school when we were 10-11. Some girls in my class accused him of very serious things (one of them being storming in and touching all us girls after gym which was total BS). He was fully investigated by police, all students were interviewed with parents and he was suspended for a year. Cleared of everything and about a month or so later the girls admitted that they made it up because he was "stupid".
Still to this day he is unable to do normal stuff without having people believe the gossip. People pull their kids out of his classes, he gets nasty looks, lost a lot of friends, vandalism to his house etc. He even got assaulted two years ago by some parents (and the accusations were made 10 years ago!)
I'm sure they would have investigated it if there was a chance of there being any truth in the claims.
Leave it alone.
Still to this day he is unable to do normal stuff without having people believe the gossip. People pull their kids out of his classes, he gets nasty looks, lost a lot of friends, vandalism to his house etc. He even got assaulted two years ago by some parents (and the accusations were made 10 years ago!)
I'm sure they would have investigated it if there was a chance of there being any truth in the claims.
Leave it alone.
Soldato
Issues like this get treated extremely seriously. If he wasn't prosecuted then there couldn't of been any truth in the claims.
Why are you trying to dig this up? The guy has probably suffered enough as it is when he was proven of doing nothing wrong.
Why are you trying to dig this up? The guy has probably suffered enough as it is when he was proven of doing nothing wrong.
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