Guy becoming teacher - used to be teaching assistant and was accused...

This is none of your business OP and you seem to have a warped view of whether innocence or guilt has to be proven in your country. I know you mean well but sheesh.

Side note : whatever happened to the guy on these forums who went through a similar thing? The last I remember was the school offered him an 'easy out' for some cash. Anyone know what I'm talking about?
 
jp_bl_68 said:
I don't mean to sound rude but you should mind your own business. An accusation like this can ruin someone's life and you have zero proof to support those claims.
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jp_bl_68 said:
Maybe there's a reason there was never an official investigation, like the accusations were complete bs.
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jumpy said:
I think you've indirectly answered your own question there: stay away.

There's plenty of reasons to not interfere in something you have no real business to get involved with.
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Take note of all the above again before you do something stupid and ruin a mans life.
 
Castiel said:
It is up to the Girl's who were allegedly assaulted to make formal complaints, this is a very serious allegation and if, as you say, the school closed because of them and the Police did not charge this guy then in all probability the claims against him were spurious and gossip.

My advice is to leave well alone.
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I agree with your first point, not the second.
You said that the alleged allegations happened years ago. Depending on their age maybe you could go to their parents, or to them directly. Tell them that he is planning on becoming a primary school teacher. If the allegations are true they would hopefully speak up to make sure it doesn't happen to more young children.
 
Owenb said:
I agree with your first point, not the second.
You said that the alleged allegations happened years ago. Depending on their age maybe you could go to their parents, or to them directly. Tell them that he is planning on becoming a primary school teacher. If the allegations are true they would hopefully speak up to make sure it doesn't happen to more young children.
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That is appalling advice! That could end very badly for the person in question.

As has been said, leave well alone!
 
Owenb said:
I agree with your first point, not the second.
You said that the alleged allegations happened years ago. Depending on their age maybe you could go to their parents, or to them directly. Tell them that he is planning on becoming a primary school teacher. If the allegations are true they would hopefully speak up to make sure it doesn't happen to more young children.
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Oh dear.

I hope you aren't serious?
 
So all the kids parents were fine with this not being investigated?

Mind your own business before you start dragging up accusations from years ago that you weren't even involved in.
 
me227 said:
So all the kids parents were fine with this not being investigated?

Mind your own business before you start dragging up accusations from years ago that you weren't even involved in.
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As I said, many many parents took their kids out of the school due to the way it was handled.

I will not be participating in any debate about what I should/shouldn't do now, I will be taking no personal action against the guy, but enquiries will be made by others who know a lot more than I do and have a lot more life experience than me, as said by others I don't know all the facts, I wasn't involved, I was just looking for some advice, which I have got now.

Thank you to the few who offered sensible advise.
 
Owenb said:
I agree with your first point, not the second.
You said that the alleged allegations happened years ago. Depending on their age maybe you could go to their parents, or to them directly. Tell them that he is planning on becoming a primary school teacher. If the allegations are true they would hopefully speak up to make sure it doesn't happen to more young children.
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Hi I'm a random stranger, can we have a quick chat about your possibly abused children over a cuppa :rolleyes:.
 
You can't say that anyone who disagreed with interfering didn't give sensible advice?

They probably took their kids out due to believing the gossip that was spread around by a few.

One accusation like that and the schools instantly put all resources into it to find out if it's true or not. Just because all the parents didn't get to know all about the process does not mean there was no investigation either.
 
I was going to jump into this thread and post something, but to be honest it's all been said.

If there was never any police involvement there is probably a good reason, if there was any evidence at all you bet the police would be all over it.

Don't go dredging up old **** and smear a man who is obviously trying to put the past behind him and start again in the teaching profession.
 
As per the rest of this thread, school allegations can come from nowhere. It was likely all BS. I'd hazard a guess that every school has a rumour about a teacher at some point.
 
thepeganator said:
Thank you to the few who offered sensible advise.
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You are obviously just reading what you want to read.

I know some people who have worked in this field and in short, if they person hasn't been convicted, they haven't done anything wrong.

Many '*****' school girls soon throw allegations around, but when it comes to the crunch of it, and going to court, it all comes out as being nonsense.

Unfortunately for many male teachers/staff, this is too late and their career is already over.

Let this guy try and get his life back on track, its not up to you to play god, stop being an interfering so and so.
 
thepeganator said:
And where have I said I am about to go on a "crusade" to ruin his life?

Merely asking about the proper channels that any inquiries should be made...

Not about to go shouting things around, he may very well be innocent, but isn't it best proved...
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It's innocent until proven guilty, not the other way about.
 
Robboftw said:
You are obviously just reading what you want to read.

I know some people who have worked in this field and in short, if they person hasn't been convicted, they haven't done anything wrong.

Many '*****' school girls soon throw allegations around, but when it comes to the crunch of it, and going to court, it all comes out as being nonsense.

Unfortunately for many male teachers/staff, this is too late and their career is already over.

Let this guy try and get his life back on track, its not up to you to play god, stop being an interfering so and so.
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As I said I'm not taking any action.

And the "sensible advise" comment was on how people were talking, not what people were saying.

"you should do xxx because of yyy" would be sensible advise, "god you idiot why are you saying this, stop being a ****" would not be sensible advice.
Not on about the content in this case.

As said, I am leaving things alone.
 
Frapple said:
Sounds like you got caught up in womenfolk gossip.
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this.

you shouldn't even be passing this story on to people without any proof. it no doubt started off as nothing and escalated as it was passed from silly woman to silly woman.

anyway do you really think someone who wanted to fiddle kids would spend 5 years going to college and uni to do it ?
 
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Using facebook can do the case more harm then good. I beleive there has been several cases thrown out due to the use of facebook by nosey civilians.

As for the aligations. All the police need do is follow up the aledged children who claimed it before. Considering they must have been young before If they turned around and said they wern't there would be no legal action against them. But I doubt the police would bother chasing it up.
 
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