hmmm, just found out one of my older friends likes me, but shes moving back to germany leaving tomor

Call me cynical but it sounds like a last ditch effort at staying in the UK, did she ever show any signs of "having a thing" for you in the prior 6yrs? it's easy for her to say it now when she's single and can no longer afford to live here.
 
OCUK answer: Smash it reeeeaaaaal goooood

Serious: Definately go out to see her!

Age isn't a problem, only if you let it be a problem.
 
We have flirted in the past yeah but as I said it was abit of a tricky situation as she was in a 6 year relationship.

We are going to stay in contact so I think I will just have to see what happens. I can always pop out there for a few days and to be honest, the likelyhood of coming back to the UK is quite high as she feels more at home here, and she wanted to move away from Germany.

Unfortunatly I dont have a place of my own at the moment so I have told her she is always available to stay when she knows what shes doing
 
Because she is not around the area atm, last time I seen her was last night, we went for a drive. She leaves tomorrow but im I need to be up for work at 5am
 
DJMK4 said:
I am 26, she is 33 however she is good looking
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Haha! It is possible for woman to still be attractive even if *shock horror* they're over 30, mate. Anyway, that's a tough situation to be in and it's probably for the best that she's going back to Germany. If she's just come out of a 6 year relationship her head will be all over the place and she'll most likely be looking to fill that void quickly; classic rebound as someone already noted.

Be glad that you spent some giggity time with her last night (?), put it down to your first 'older' woman experience, and move on. There'll be plenty of other milfs in your lifetime :)
 
At the ages of 13 and 20; 7 years is a big gap. Aged 26 and 33... no problem at all. Sounds a hard decision, but I reckon you should at least go and visit her a few times in Germany.

I have a friend who met a Russian lady. He has been out to see her several times, sometimes for months at a time and he has never been happier. It CAN work!
 
LawfordLass said:
At the ages of 13 and 20; 7 years is a big gap. Aged 26 and 33... no problem at all. Sounds a hard decision, but I reckon you should at least go and visit her a few times in Germany.

I have a friend who met a Russian lady. He has been out to see her several times, sometimes for months at a time and he has never been happier. It CAN work!
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Not another spy is she?
 
Seconding most peoples advice to go and visit her. The age difference is nothing and you'll regret it if you don't at least give it a try (much like she regrets not saying something sooner).
 
Tell her you've wanted to visit Germany for ages ask her if she wants to show you around abit, friday - monday should be pretty cheap, you two get to spend some time together to see if it would work.
If you two hit it off great, shows her you wanted it and made the effort, if it doesnt no harm done you will surely still be friends.
 
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