I've always lived in or near London and always worked in central London. When I was in my 20's in the late 1980's and 1990's I loved it. The social aspect was fantastic. But now I am in my late 40's I'm starting to really dislike it. My social circle has declined as people have left, moved away or emigrated and as I've had to move further out to afford a family home my commute is 1.5 to 2 hours each way, frequently standing. I'm on much more than the average salary and on a very good salary even for London. But it doesn't feel like it because everything is so expensive. Some parts of central London are a real cesspit now too. Maybe that was always the case but I'm noticing it more. I never drive into London at weekends anymore as traffic is too bad.
My wife still won't move away but with both our jobs constantly at risk I'd love to up roots and move somewhere else in the country. I've said to her that when I retire I'd really like us to move away. There are some beautiful parts of the country. But as she won't go it will be an interesting decision in a few years. But maybe the old adage is true and I'm simply getting older and my priorities are changing; tired of London, tired of life.
In an ideal world we would sell the house, buy something moderate in a country area and give some of the equity to the kids as a deposit for their own place wherever they choose.
My wife still won't move away but with both our jobs constantly at risk I'd love to up roots and move somewhere else in the country. I've said to her that when I retire I'd really like us to move away. There are some beautiful parts of the country. But as she won't go it will be an interesting decision in a few years. But maybe the old adage is true and I'm simply getting older and my priorities are changing; tired of London, tired of life.
In an ideal world we would sell the house, buy something moderate in a country area and give some of the equity to the kids as a deposit for their own place wherever they choose.