How long until you said "I love you"?

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How long were you/have you been in a relationship before you told your partner you love them?

I know there is no right or wrong, just interested to see how quickly people do (or at least think they do) love someone.

Spanks.
 
I've always worn my heart on my sleeve so once I feel comfortable and i care about them, although that's not been for a number of years. If you feel ready, then that's the time.
 
My current gf... Took around 3 months, we had a HUGE falling out and it just slipped out, oddly enough, we both paused, and said it at the exact same time to each other.

Because for the first time in mine and her life, we wanted to sort the issues and we both realised that it obviously meant a lot more than just a fling.

We now say it daily without hesitation and are very happy.

Like everything, if you put effort into it, it becomes fantastic.

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last time i felt that comfortable (long time ago now) was when I felt comfortable with the girl and had no worries, no in-security's and felt a great deal towards her, always popping into my mind etc.


why ss has your girl got you in the mood for love ? :D
 
does it not mean less if you say it everyday ?
a bit like eating a cookie everyday and before you realise it, they just dont taste that good.
 
last time i felt that comfortable (long time ago now) was when I felt comfortable with the girl and had no worries, no in-security's and felt a great deal towards her, always popping into my mind etc.


why ss has your girl got you in the mood for love ? :D

Pretty much. Just not sure if she feels the same.....yet.

We've been together now for 5 months, but she was in a long LONG relationship before we got together so naturally I expect there are strong feelings for her ex still.
 
Pretty much. Just not sure if she feels the same.....yet.

We've been together now for 5 months, but she was in a long LONG relationship before we got together so naturally I expect there are strong feelings for her ex still.

ah right dude, well obviously the easiest way to find out is say or just hint on mate say something is abit extra special (in your own way) and "test" the water if you will, for while then just come out with it ? obviously when you feel comfortable. You never know until you say.

Oh shes with you and not her ex so she obviously has a great deal of feelings towards you :)


Me Personally

I did after 3 months roughly, and she was out of a long relationship well her first long term relationship and it worked out pretty well :) (the ending not so much haha) I still have small feelings for her its natural but Im more interested in who Im with, not the past :)
 
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ah right dude, well obviously the easiest way to find out is say or just hint on mate say something is abit extra special (in your own way) and "test" the water if you will, for while then just come out with it ? obviously when you feel comfortable. You never know until you say.

Oh shes with you and not her ex so she obviously has a great deal of feelings towards you :)

I suppose so :)

The water has kind of been tested already. She has joked a few times about it, almost like she is trying to get me to say it. I'm not sure. Oh dear, this is turning into a relationship thread, haha!

In 6 years, not yet

Wow, really? Any reason (other than not actually loving her/him)?
 
I want to say it, but it's far too soon and I know she doesn't feel the same (yet). ;)

With my previous girlfriend it was about 2 months.
 
I suppose so :)

The water has kind of been tested already. She has joked a few times about it, almost like she is trying to get me to say it. I'm not sure. Oh dear, this is turning into a relationship thread, haha!

haha :D well if you get that feeling maybe its time to do something special ? or when your out with her just say it in passing ? depends on what type of girl she is :) whether she likes all those romantic scenes and meal or bed etc or just something simple and sweet ;)
 
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