I feel Sad :(

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Soldato
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As of late I've been starting to feel very down. I think my Father passing away has finally hit me. I thought I could deal with it, but guess I'm finding it rather difficult. I'm trying my best at University as well, but finding it difficult, I just end up drifting off into other thoughts.

Can you guys cheer me up :(
 
Vita said:
As of late I've been starting to feel very down. I think my Father passing away has finally hit me. I thought I could deal with it, but guess I'm finding it rather difficult. I'm trying my best at University as well, but finding it difficult, I just end up drifting off into other thoughts.

Can you guys cheer me up :(
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everyone deals with grief in different ways mate. We cant tell you how to "cope" as that's pretty much what we have to learn to do.

Loosing someone close is never going to be an easy thing to get over.
Take it one day at a time, and try to focus on your uni work. Its not selfish I'm sure you father would want you to do well more than anything.
 
Something that helps me when I'm a bit down is realising how pointless being sad or mopey is (easier said than done).

People don't like being around miserable / mopey people. You are much better off acknowledging that you are a bit down but making sure you are making the most out of what you do now and the friends you have around you.

Also, although I'm doubted on this by others, I find the music I listen to changes my mood immensely. Get the Radiohead and Pink Floyd out of your CD player and listen to something more cheerful :)
 
I've been sleeping well, it's just as of late I feel rather down. I don't feel like my life has got on hold, it's just I'm rather very to myself, spend quite a lot of time alone. Think I'll go do something interesting with a few friends, but they always have something else going on.
 
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