Since the OP has married a religious women, and enjoys the company of his mother/father in law, this made me infer that the congregation that he would likely take his children to is welcoming and a positive group with little hang ups. By him being "grounded" he could help his children take the best from the local community no? Many of the stories in the bible are, as Tefal points out, horrific and no longer relevant, but others hold positive messages.
I really do not see the need to cut out an entire community on the basis you both provide although I can understand why you would wish to so.
Yes people saying they want me dead in print but then going "nooo look as long as you ignore the bits where we say evil stuff we're actually lovley"
Also I'm not alowed to use the facilities but have to subsidise them via tax and I have to be governed by the Lords spiritual because their religion literally makes them more entitled in our society than me does erk me somewhat.
I really do not see the need to cut out an entire community
Can you tell that to them? I mean would be nice to get married in the same place the rest of my family did but sadly the church cut out my entire community....
Like how the BNP are actually all a lovley and inclusive group if you just ignore the xenophobia