OP are you sure it's actually a case of iOS doing it better or it just being what you're used to? You've spent so long on iphones that when you move your finger a certain amount, you subconsciously except the menu to move a certain amount and anything else feels wrong? Obviously i'm talking about when you flick rather than dragging your finger, which I assume is the same across all platforms
I haven't used Android regularly since 1.6, but I'd be surprised if it had gotten this far with such a fundamental problem you describe?
It did
and Jelly Bean has fixed it 
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