Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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NeverWinter said:
God damn it, girl just randomly stopped messaging me for the last 2 days. This thing is so annoying.
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This.

Rather miffed as the only one I have been interested in recently has cleared off :/ I may treat myself to a new track car and tour some more circuits as there is naff all happening on this front.
 
Sinny said:
Not had one Date on PoF, yet I have had 2 from ok cupid this past month.

I don't really know why though, I think OK seems a bit more serious.

either that or I'm Fugly ;)
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Lol. It was the same for me, i didn't get a single date from pof at all. I haven't tried OK though, might be worth having a nose at it.
 
I somtimes log in but cba to send messages back, even if it was a girl i've been getting on well with. I leave it 2-6 days between messages. I get a lot of messages and it takes a while to go through them, not showing off, most are fat :(
 
Anyone got any tips on what sort of message you should send out as a first message? i dont seem to get a good reply rate, and at this rate ill probably run out of girls in my area soon:D
 
Kimi said:
Anyone got any tips on what sort of message you should send out as a first message? i dont seem to get a good reply rate, and at this rate ill probably run out of girls in my area soon:D
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Have you linked your profile so we can give you a OcUK review :)

Best best with opening email is to be genuine. Comment on their profile and show interest. Be yourself and not who you think they'll want you to be.
 
2nd date last night. Went really well but she said something that made me think..

I find her very attractive, we have lots in common and can talk for hours however she says I'm very hard to read and don't flirt with her. I find this confusing though as I've been doing all the usual flirty things. So I'm not sure if I'm not flirting how I think I am or if she just can't tell. It has made me think though as usually if I really fancy someone I'll flirt a lot?!

Any ideas?
 
Zirax said:
Rather miffed as the only one I have been interested in recently has cleared off :/ I may treat myself to a new track car and tour some more circuits as there is naff all happening on this front.
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Do this! Been treating myself to some stuff for the first time in ages and it feels nice. I've been spending all my spare cash on my niece lately - she has a new laptop, TV, Nintendo 3DS, has had loads of days out and I've realised that I've spent naff all on myself. Ooops. :p
 
Orange Peel said:
So I'm not sure if I'm not flirting how I think I am or if she just can't tell. It has made me think though as usually if I really fancy someone I'll flirt a lot?!

Any ideas?
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Maybe she's just not reading your flirting as she's already said. Maybe she has that problem with more than just yourself?
 
Orange Peel said:
2nd date last night. Went really well but she said something that made me think..

I find her very attractive, we have lots in common and can talk for hours however she says I'm very hard to read and don't flirt with her. I find this confusing though as I've been doing all the usual flirty things. So I'm not sure if I'm not flirting how I think I am or if she just can't tell. It has made me think though as usually if I really fancy someone I'll flirt a lot?!

Any ideas?
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How tactile are you? Obviously there are limits but a casual touch of the arm, for instance, at the right time can speak volumes.
 
Orange Peel said:
Have you linked your profile so we can give you a OcUK review :)

Best best with opening email is to be genuine. Comment on their profile and show interest. Be yourself and not who you think they'll want you to be.
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Ha yea, here it is mate, http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2939793.htm fire away:p

Thats what ive been doing really, something along the lines of, i was was reading your profile and thought you were pretty cool etc.

It doesn't seem to be working, maybe its a numbers game and i need to fire a few more off
 
NeverWinter said:
Maybe she's just not reading your flirting as she's already said. Maybe she has that problem with more than just yourself?
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Yeah maybe.

I do tend to flirt more with people I know just for a laugh. When it comes to someone I have a romantic interest in I'll hold back a little as I don't want to give them the wrong idea. Maybe I need to dial it up a bit?
 
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