i think a lot of the posts in this very thread are prime examples of what's 'wrong' with this place...
you get the 'elite-50' or so members, all best buddies...going on meets...posting photos...having the best time!

All that kinda stuff. And it's all good...in fact it's nice...but it does create that cliquey atmosphere. That's the best i can describe it..and i'm pretty sure a lot of members here know what i mean. Sometimes when reading/posting thread you feel like you're in 'their town'..gotta watch what you say etc.
It's like with Feek leaving..it's really not that sad. Honest. But then buddies of his post comments or make suggestions that there was some deep seated reason for his going...but then don't say what. How mysterious!..and suddenly you have 7+ pages of it! Again, very cliquey..and quite off putting i think. Personally, i couldn't care less why he's gone and i'm sure the fine folks on these forums will keep the community thriving. The ONLY thing i recall him giving this forum is pictures of beer. Perhaps that's enough?!
An example of this cliquiness (a word?!) would be Dymetrie (sorry to name you fella, you're just the first that springs to mind). Personally i've never noticed the guy on these forums (again, no offence!)..until he went to the meet in London. Now he's like a stand out member..best buddies with everyone, sharing the little in jokes etc..defending Feek's honour like his life depended on it. Again, sorry for naming you mate..
I'm sure the man himself has signed out of OCUK and is now sitting in front of his PC basking in the glory of us all having so many opinions about him. This thread is ALL about the attention..and he's getting it. To be fair, he did seem like a decent guy..but there are many, many decent people on here (megzy, you included ...i think the **** you have to put up with from certain other members on here is appalling - personally i think you've provided more entertainment that Feek ever did!).
All this of course is in my opinion. I'm not trying to rub anyone up the wrong way.
PS i've had a long, hard day at work..if any of the above doesn't make sense...well, sorry. I know what i mean!